What should I say to my little sister who's upset because she's not apart of the Jonas Brothers/Demi Lovato...

Question

Selena Gomez/Miley Cyrus group?

She's all upset and feels like she has no talent and is just like "I wish I had friends like that"

I want to tell her to get a grip, but I need to be gentle toward her feelings.

What should I say? She's 15 yr.s old. I think she's just idolizing them because she's going through a hard time and she doesn't have many friends. she says she always hears about how close they are and it makes her lonely.

What should I tell her to comfort her and make her feel better?

I really don't think it has anything to do with the Jonas Brothers/Demi Lovato ect. I think it's just symbolic of the fact that she feels like she doesn't have any people like that in her life. I also think that she feels like just because she can't sing or act, she feels insecure like she has no worth.

What should I do?

Answer 1

Just tell her this.

Jonas brothers and all other groups have had issues like hers in the past. All famous people usually had no friends. When they became famous, they got fans and friends. Tell her not to worry. The time will come one day when she becomes famous...

Answer 2

Come on. She's fifteen. You don't have to be THAT sensitive.

Answer 3

I think you should let her know that theres not that many people in the world like those groups and thats why they are so famous and idolized. You should suggest that she get closer with the friends she does have, then maybe she would feel less insecure.