She was raised by a fundamentalist Christian mother.
My friend likes girls. She has had relationships with girls. It's just the way she is.
She has a couple of other religious friends who keep telling her she needs to "stop all this" and get back in church.
They aren't concerned with her struggle, what she wants, or what she is going through. Their biggest concern is that she start behaving the way they think she should, according to their religious beliefs.
I can hear in her voice and in her comments that she believes them. She doesn't like herself. Her pain is deep and she's going through it alone.
She believes in God. I don't want to make her walk away from that, but I can't seem to convince her that it's okay to be herself and still be a Christian.
What would you tell her? Thanks for your advice.
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