What should a 28 year old woman wear to a buckingham palace Queen's award reception?

Question

I don't know if we will be meeting his and her majesty as yet - but I have no idea what to wear! I don't own or look good in hats and I live in my jeans! I own a couple of dresses but one is more evening wear for posh weddings and the rest more casual - and i don't suit skirts that aren't full length casual numbers. I don't want to turn up and feel awkward but I am attending with an older lady so need some fashion advice for the younger visitor :) Any tips on etiquette also gratefully received!

Answer 1

You can usually determine the dress code from the invitation, which usually tells its guest the proper attire required. There are also no obligatory codes of behaviour when meeting The Queen or a member of the Royal Family, but many people wish to observe the traditional forms. For men this is a neck bow (from the head only) whilst women do a small curtsy. Other people prefer simply to shake hands in the usual way.

On presentation to The Queen, the correct formal address is 'Your Majesty' and subsequently 'Ma'am'. For male members of the Royal Family the same rules apply, with the title used in the first instance being 'Your Royal Highness' and subsequently 'Sir'. For other female members of the Royal Family the first address is conventionally 'Your Royal Highness' followed by 'Ma'am' in later conversation.

Answer 2

The invitation should come with a set of instructions on what to wear as well an address to which to RSVP.  If you can't determine what to wear, contact someone at that address.

Answer 3

Something clean and appropriate. Nothing too revealing, keep it respectful not flashy!

Answer 4

Sounds like you should  give up on the idea, you sound pretty set in your urbane ways.

Answer 5

First off congrats.  This is quite an honor.

Second I do not think you have to worry about a hat.  I do not feel that is the make or break of an outfit.  However you are, or may, be seeing the queen.  You have only the first chance to make a first impression.

Easily if possible you may want to shop with your older friend so you can be somewhat together rather than totally clashed with her.

A formal dress is mandatory.  Not a slinky cocktail dress.  Matching shoes and bag.  Pearls are always a nice touch but either way a nice piece of jewelry again nothing to gaudy as this person can wear the crown jewels and hard to impress that way.

As to etiquette-practice a curtsey.  Once you get through the initial intro you are in much better stead.

Good Luck and have fun