What should a virgin prepare on her wedding night

Question

I'm 33 and getting married on February.A virgin bride.i don't have a single idea what to do in preparation for my wedding.sos

Answer 1

Many girls worry that it will hurt when they have s*x for the first time. It can hurt, but often not a lot, and some girls do bleed a little bit. The bleeding usually occurs because the girl has a hymen which breaks the first time she has sexual intercourse.

The hymen is a small piece of thin skin which goes across the opening of a girl's v****a and protects it when she is young. It has some gaps in it where the blood can come out when she has her period. Sometimes a girl might already having broken her hymen without knowing about it - this can happen as a result of playing sports or horse riding.

s*x the first time shouldn't hurt for a boy, but he can make it easier for his partner by being gentle and taking it slowly - try to make it special for you both.

Since you're in your sexual prime you're likely to enjoy it even more than you would have in your twenties. It will all come to you naturally. Allow yourself to relax to the point that your bodies prepares for the event. Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing.

Our designer certainly wanted us to enjoy the marital arrangement together for the first time. It's an exciting and special time. Take it at your own pace. Don't expect fireworks the 1st time. Check with your doctor prior to the date of your wedding to make sure you're not on your cycle and to prepare for a form of birth control that works for you.

Our bodies are heightened sexually first by feeding our minds, so if you can both prepare each other for it by things you say and do beforehand, you'll be rewarded. Allow your sense of touch to lengthen. Soft soothing spa type music, a touch of wine can help relax you IF you feel you need it.

Be sure you tell him what you enjoy, where you notice you're getting good stimulation and ask him what he enjoys and what you can do to make it more enjoyable. Don't be embarassed. Open up to him. This openess will allow you to enter into a greater ecstasy. Praise him when he does good. Enjoy sweetie!

Answer 2

Be relaxed and dont stress/worry about it. let yourself have a few alcoholic drinks to help relax you.

Pack some KY lubricant... the first time will hurt a little but if you use lube it will ease it for you. If your not wanting to get pregnant straight away, pack some condoms or start the contraceptive pill earlier.

Make sure you set some s**y lingerie aside for the honeymoon!

Answer 3

Another two things to be aware of are urinary track infections (honeymoon cystitis) and yeast infections.

You are going to be doing things in delicate area that hasn`t been done before. Bodily fluids and naturally occuring bacteria end up in odd places. Lots of women will get urinary track or yeast infections on or shortly after their honeymoon. Ìf you feeling a burning sensation in the nether regions, don`t assume you sweetie just gave you a horrible disease. Go to your doctor and get yourself checked out. You may even want to broach the subject with your doctor before to know what to expect.

A listen to everyone about the lube...ky or astro glide....seriously...it helps.

Relax, have fun...it gets better.

Answer 4

Lube is really important, particularly because you will probably be nervous.  Astro-glide, KY, or similar stuff.  Don't be embarrassed -- lots of women need this normally, and it will make the evening much more comfortable for you.  Of course, you need to work out birth control issues well in advance (assuming you're not ready to start a family ... if you are, then have fun!)

Answer 5

I am 25 and a virgin you are an encouragement!

Answer 6

Congrats! I'm proud of you!!!! I also lost mine on my wedding nite. It is very uncomfortable at first! but keep practicing it does get better. do sum self exploration. (u can get a glove 4 that) and relax, ur gonna b with the 1 God provided 4 u!!!!! good luck and congrats!  

Answer 7

Prepare for a great night!  

Answer 8

wow! a 33 yr old virgin?! that is a rare commodity! you go girl!

Answer 9

lube,s**y stuff and birth control.Thats very great of u

Answer 10

Thats awesome! I'm so excited for you! You will have an amazing God ordained experience with your husband.

For my wedding night, I made sure that I wore a slinky white nightgown. To be honest, you won't be wearing it for very long...but it will be something that you will always remember as your first time. I also agree with the person that said something about lubrication. You can purchase something like that at any drug store or Walmart. I'm just thinking with your first time, you might want some lubrication to help with the sliding in of things because you will be tight.

HaHa this convo is getting deep. My husband had sprinkled rose petals throughout of apartment for our first night and had candles lit. You don't really need anything fancy...just you and your husband!

Answer 11

You prepare nothing: when you get married, you become one and God will make your wedding nite very special because you have reserved yourself.

Answer 12

nothing but just yourself, your hubby, nice emotions and a quiet and private place.

you're not alone and thats obvious? your partner will guide you thru and if he's even fresher than you....learning it is half the fun!

no worries...you two will have world of a fun when you get there! and remember, you have all the time in the world to find what best interests you . . .

have fun . ..  

Answer 13

lube, candels, nice lingerie, a nice bikini wax and you're ready to go....

but on your wedding night you will be doing 'lots of sleeping!

Answer 14

prepare to get stuffed like a turkey