What should be the consequences?

Question

I had just finished a driving lesson and I was starving, I got food from a local sub shop and went to moms work. She said she was in a hurry to get home but I defied her and took 1 extra hour in her work because I was talking to friends. She got mad at me and told me she was disappointed in me. We are going to the beach tomorrow so she does not want to ground me from the beach, but does want a punishment. I am a fifteen year old female. go easy on me plz

Answer 1

I'm with KK I don't really understand what you did wrong. you where with her at her work right so why didn't she just say hey let's go or I'm in a rush we have to leave now yeah know what I mean. if she was with you waiting she should have tooken charge if she was really ready to leave. unless she was at home waiting for you then that would be different.

Answer 2

you should not go to the beach. she is too easy on you. when it's time to go, it's time to go. dont be selfish and talk to your friends. she should have been adament and made you leave. you can talk to your friends on the phone later.

so, no beach for you. punishments are supposed to be unenjoyable not a day at the beach.

Answer 3

I don't understand what you did wrong?  If she wanted to leave why didn't she just tell you "hey, let's go."  You know what I mean?  Was she waiting in the car for you or something?  Why wouldn't she just make you leave with her?  I'm confused.

Answer 4

Since you took an hour from her day, I think it would be fair to pay her back with an hour of your time.  Offer to do some chores or work for her while she enjoys some free time.  Do it when she needs the work to be done, not when it's convenient for you.  

Answer 5

Clean the bathroom and kitchen in your home so your mom gets a couple of extra hours to relax.