What should i be aiming for?

Question

im 5ft 4, 16 years old, and 166lbs. and a UK 16 in tops and a UK 14 in bottoms. my body shape is kinda wierd im like really broad then im like 36" D bust then 34" waist then 40" hips and 23" thighs so im like kinda wierd lol.

but for someone who has this kind of body type would it look wierd if i was to be slim because my shoulders are like a coat hanger kinda thing and its wierd lol.

what weight should i aim for?? i was thinking about 140lbs just so im kinda average. what size should i try and be? i dont think i would ever get into size 8s because my hips would be incapable of it because theire naturally like wide.

would a UK 14, 12, or 10 be better???

i just need to set myself some goals for like a certain dress size and weight, i want to look good and feel more confident in myself and i wouldnt mind getting some male attention for once lmao but its mainly a confidence thing for me. im hoping to get half way there by christmas and then meet the rest of the target sometime next year.

i like to give myself some time because if its done slow and steady i know it will stay off and i wont put it all back on.

Answer 1

hahahaa i understand you perfectly...i'm 5'5, 138 but my measurements are extreme...36C - 28 1/2 - 40...my hips are 20...you have my same problem...you're really curvy and medium or big-framed...so, we'll never be like those 125-pound girls...what you can do is start exercising to burn the extra fat...spinning is excellent, and running...you could try interval training...also, do some exercises to tone up but don't focus on them just yet...you need to lose a little body fat and then focus on losing weight AND toning...also, don't trust the scale...i have dropped 2 pounds in 2 weeks, but all my clothes surprisingly fit, and everyone tells me i look thinner...with our body types, weight is not always the best measure...pick a pair of pants that seem tight right now, and every 1-2 weeks put on the pants a moment to see if anything has changed...i'm so glad i have someone similar to me :D good luck!!!