What should i do, i feel like dying?

Question

i cheated on the love of my life & he broke up with me.

now i feel like nothing in the world is worth living for.

ugh, if i could take everything back i would.

what can i do to make me feel better?

i hate myself for this.

Answer 1

Don't do anything stupid like suicide or drink a ton,

But you made a mistake, he is not going to forgive you, so eventually you have to forgive yourself and move on with life.  You know now how you will feel so if you fall in love again you know what not to do

Answer 2

You've made a mistake in your life but has't everybody? I know it's hard but this means he's not the guy for you for he's not willing to endure this and make sacrfifices. Cheer up you'll find your significant other later in life.

Answer 3

I heard somewhere that when guys cheat its out of "MOJO" and when girls cheat it is out of "adrenaline". It seems to me as if you had your cake and ate it to.  I once had this problem and the only thing i could think of doing is going out to get my mind off of him, clubbing, beach, mall.  Theres nothing you can really do to change his mind, maybe you could kiss his a$$ a little but once you cheat he will always hold it against you and it will never smoothen itself out. Im sorry.  Just remember there is more fish in the sea.....

Answer 4

everyone makes mistakes you couldnt of loved him as much as you though just pick yourself up and move on you may meet mr right next time  

Answer 5

you dirty s**t

repent ACCEPT JESUS TO SAVE YOU

Answer 6

stop hating yourself thats just self distructive everyone makes mistakes. Give it time be on your own for awhile then make some awesome gesture to him expressing your love and sorrow for what happened. It may never be the same between you though depending on if any of you have trust issues sort it out and stop giving yourself a hard time good luck

Answer 7

We all do things and then wish we could take them back, but the painfull fact is that we can't. You know that what you did is wrong, so now the best thing that you can do for yourself is to move on. When I say "move on" it does not necessarily mean that you move on without the man you love. Go to to him and try to explain, don't beg for forgiveness, just ask (as humbly as possible) for his forgiveness. Tell him that you know that he might never trust you the same way ever again, but you are willing to work for his trust because you love him. Explain that this selfish weakness that you experienced will never happen again simply because you love him. You need to know that you might have to move on without him. That is a consequence that you will have to live with. Sorry for your mishap and I wish you all the best.

Answer 8

People make mistakes, and hopefully they learn form them & move on.

You're not a horrible person, you were only blinded by the instinctual sexual drive all humans have.

2 things:

1: A lot of people cheat because they are subconsciously trying to sabotage their relationship. When I cheated on my bf, I later realized it was because I wanted out of the relationship, although I didn't know I was doing this at the time.

2. If you really loved each other you wouldn't break up over this but work through it. Both my bf & I have talked about how hurt we would be if the other cheated, but that we would still want to make our relationship work. If he really loved you, he would learn to forgive you. He would at least try to make your relationship work.

You're actions may have caused him to break up with you, but it is his fault that you guys are not together.

If he loved you, he'll try to put this in the past in order to have a future with you.

Answer 9

whyu did you cheat on the love of your life if you really loved him for anyway? you really have no-one but yourself to blame for the situatuion ur  in now sorry. you should try and move on with your life if he is not prepared to go back with you.