What should i do, when i have my baby, and my soon ta be husband leaves me? im scare of that?

Question

i know there is alot ta deal with, with having a baby, at my age, but what could i do without my husband?

Answer 1

How do you know he will leave you?

He may never leave you, and you may want him to in ten years

My husband died when my daughter was two

I was not afraid of him leaving, but dieing, that is what he did

My mom died when I was a child, her father died when she was a child, her mom mom's died when my grandma was a child.  My dad sister lost her her husband a few years before my mom died.  There was a reason for my fear

Is there a reason for your fear?

You will do fine

Do not worry about things that may not happen

You can not control life, just enjoy what is going on now

Answer 2

get a lawyer and sue his *** off.

Answer 3

has he said he's leaving? if not quit tripn unless it happens remember he is probably going through alot of fears but he will be ok

Answer 4

Why do you think your husband will leave you? I understand that being pregnant makes people think and more emotional. But hang in there and be strong.You dont want to stress out to much because its not good for you or the baby

Answer 5

Why would he leave u? Why are u thinking like that. Dont be negative

Answer 6

I don't understand why your soon to be husband

is leaving you ?? do you mean you split up before

getting married!? And after getting married he's

leaving ?.......or is he leaving because of a job !

I think ....you need to be strong for you.......there are

exellent health nursing and practices in place in

Australia , and other Western Countrys so i am

presuming you will have a lot of support.

This means help is always a phone call away with

any problems even if you are on your own, let me

tell you even couples cannot get by without a lot of

these services , so it makes no difference having a

partner .   The thing is tiredeness in the beginning,

and during the first 8 months really !!

The best advice i give you is .....forget everything else

just keep you and baby time.....that is when baby is

asleep .....you must get some rest and sleep also.

Otherwise , you will find yourself with loss of too much

sleep and you get angry with baby !

Make sure you get rest when baby is resting , the housework

can wait.   The two of  you are the most immportant  *

Answer 7

If this is a genuine concern, and not just emotions talking, you need to start planning as best you can to be a single parent.  You need to know what kind of job you will have, how you will provide healthcare, who will provide childcare, etc.  If this is ACTUALLY going to happen, remember that women are single parents ALL THE TIME, and your time is NOT spent well feeling sorry for yourself or being paralised with fear.  Get moving and start getting creative.  Be brave and impetuous.  Don't settle for anything less than the best for you and your child, and don't become involved with anymore wimpy men!!  

YOU DON'T NEED A MAN TO BE A GOOD WOMAN OR A GOOD MOTHER.

You need a calm, creative brain.  YOU CAN DO THAT.  It's not easy, you won't be able to be lazy.  It's going to be hard work 110% of the time, but that's what you signed up for when you chose to be a mother anyway!  Take it that step further and KNOW you can go it alone if you have to!  Start to educate yourself about your financial situation.  Financial IQ is SO MUCH MORE IMPORTANT than ANYTHING else you can do.  I'm NOT talking about getting a job, working hard and that's it.  I'm talking about learning to make all this balance.  I reccomend "Increase your Financial IQ" by Robert Kiyosaki.  It may not seem important now, but IT IS!  Here's a link to get it cheaper than retail.  You DON'T need a man, you need SMARTS!

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