What should i do , when she gets home?

Question

My mom and i got into a huge fight she was mad beacuse me and my bro were fightin over the computer . She came and the house was a mess bc of my brother. And she was mad beacuse i didnt give him his medician . But he hits me and beats me up when he dosent get his way and she blames me for everthing. I started to cry and she called me horrible names and left with my brother , to take care of the other house. I have no one to talk to and i can't take it anymore . What should i do ?

Answer 1

Start by cleaning house. Mom is probably tired, over worked, and feeling unappreciated if she's working, coming home to clean.. and then leaving out to take care of yet another house as well.

Then, when brother is in YOUR care, be sure to give him his medicine. He wouldn't be on it, if he didn't need it. Who knows, it might be medicine that will calm him down or something.

And finally, what's the point in fighting over a computer? Start splitting time on it.. give little brother 30 minutes to an hour, and then you take 30 minutes to an hour. Learn to compromise. Afterall, who's older, you or him?

Teach him to be a little more mature, by acting more mature. Kids learn by what they see. Once mom sees you're trying to do as she wants.. she won't be so angry. And while it wasn't nice of her to call you horrible names, ask yourself, was anything YOU did that lead up to it nice?

You may not be the root of all the problems, not by a long shot, but you can start fixing the problems you know about. Give mom a break, help her out. Let her come home to a nice, clean house.. and then apologize for fighting with little brother.

Answer 2

call an aunt or uncle and tell them you need help with the way your mom treats you. She will listen to them.

Answer 3

Wow

you better call the police

Answer 4

Just ignore her completly. Try and find some really close friends when you go back to school. Just be civil, answer when spoken to, nothing more. And if you have headphones/earphones for your phone/pc/ipop, ect. ALWAYS have them in so you can't hear if they're calling you. And if your brother hits you again...I'd say fight back, but if he's on medication then just dodge his attacks. (Sounds like a video game lol)

Don't make conversation with them at all. If it fail's then you can chat to me on my 360, trust me I've been thru a similar problem ☺☻

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Answer 5

sounds like a tough situation, i've been in some like that where my mom gets mad sort of irrationally. she's probably just stressed out but really she loves you, she's just like anyone though, she wants a perfect family where everyone gets along and the house is clean 24/7. when she gets home, say you're sorry (even if you don't think you should, she'll like it if you do) and maybe explain that you understand why she was mad and you'll try harder next time. good luck. and remember, you're a family and you need to stick together.