What should i do? Anyone know?

Question

Well a month ago i told school that i used to be sexually abused by my brother so like child services got involved and everything. But i told my mum after i told school that day and she didnt belive me :(

So anyway childservice say the cant do anything because he needs long time support by my parents so i feel really unwanted.

So since my mum and dad are still favouring him and me and my mum and dad and brother keep having arguments but at the end of it they always seem to blame everything on me.

But tonight me and my mum had an argument and i thought id b stubborn for a change to prove that i can be like it too. But now im lost and i dont know what to do? Ive consided commiting suicide and also running away but i dont know what the best thing is do , there doesnt seem any hope for me.

Answer 1

Maybe you should choose to go into foster care.

Answer 2

im srry but i can relate to you story you can e-mail me @ [e-mail] so i can tell you about my story and you can talk to me if you ever feel like you dont want to live anymore because i went through the exact same thing hope i can help

Answer 3

If i were you i wouldn't want to stay in the same house as my brother after that!

but you must be really brave. Try moving in with another relative until your old enough to get your own place. At the end of the day your family should support you no matter what and if they aren't why should you stand by them.  

Answer 4

I was sexually abused by 2 of my older brothers when I was younger, and my mom never knew. When I was 15 I finally told her, and luckily she believed me. We tried to keep it a deal to settle within the family, but my dad (who doesn't live with us) told the authorities just to be annoying. I had to go through the whole dang process of telling EVERYTHING, getting therapy, video taping my confessions, and all that jazz. DCFS is very thorough, and they have an obligation to investigate every instance of suspected abuse. I'm inclined to believe that the people you are talking to aren't the right peope to talk to. If I were you, I would google DCFS and the state you live in, and report it to a new authority. Your parents DON'T have to believe you in order to make it true.

There are also millions of websites with forums you can go to to talk about your situation. They have lots of people who can tell you what you can do, and how to cope.

DCFS may determine that your situation doesn't require you to be removed from your home, however, it's important to realize that they can do other things to help. They can help you get counseling, for you individually, or with your parents, or with your brother. They can direct you to people who can help you deal with the effects of sexual abuse.

I'm astounded at whoever is dealing with your case. I'm assuming they've had too many false reports for them to be surprised anymore, but that doesn't mean they can ignore problems.

I'm glad to talk or help out in any way I can.

Answer 5

well living with your parents doesnt seem to fun. Id be inclined to tell family services about it and tell them u are worried for ur safety, then they will take u into care. You havnt done anything wrong so make sure u dont blame urself