What should i do?? My ex is pregnant!?!?

Question

She has a bf now,, and its mine tho forsure,, but she says she will say it isnt mine to her parents and say its his... She is only 17 Im only 18 Im going away too college, what am i suppose too doo, there is no way in h**l i can have a kid, and no im not manning up and claiming it

Answer 1

You honestly need to grow the h**l up and deal with what you have created a child YOUR CHILD! WHen I became pregnant I was 20 and my b/f was 19 and we wernt planning on having a baby but guess what we did and we seperated but he still clamed his baby even though it was unplanned so deal with it and be YOUR BABIES FATHER!

Answer 2

Your unbelievable.... You should man up to your responsibility.  Your 18 and an adult.  You need to do what's right and take care of what's yours.  You would actually let some poor guy take the blame for getting this girl pregnant and you are okay with that?  What kind of man are you?  No, not a man, Kid... you need to grow up.

Answer 3

YA!!!!!  What they said !!! What are u going to college for?Would it be to better yourself? Maybe get an education, and become responsible in personal and civic duties?  Maybe to be able to support yourself and provide for a family some day?  Well its here now !  You obviously haven't assesed your direction in life or even tried. MAN_UP !  Do the right thing. Take responsibility.  Go to college and help provide and raise YOUR child not to be as irrresponsible as you. Don't stick the mother with the burden totally. Try to enjoy and nurture the life you help create. There is all kinds and help and support you can get to assist you.  Do the reserch.  Be a man.  You will regret it for the rest of your lifeif u don't

Answer 4

Some people just ask stupid question and don't think about anything that is very selfish of you to even say anything like this because of the fact that this is another person's life that we are talking about.  You are so irresponsible in not helping her with anything just because she is going to say that it is the other guys doesn't mean anything.  Cause he may demand a DNA test and when he finds out that it is not his them someone has some explaining to do.  So just man up you are 18 for crying out loud if you play with fire then you will get burnt so i suggest you own up and be a man stop acting like a baby.

Answer 5

Do what you want, you already said you are not manning up an claiming it so why are you asking us for advice?? Just leave an be another dead beat dad like so many other pieces of shitt out there..  and then in 18 years you can post a new question    "What should I do, A girl showed up at my door step and asked why I abandoned her?"

Answer 6

Well if you don't want it whats the big deal?

If she's going to lie about it to everyone and say it's not yours why do you care?

You do'nt want it right?

Get a DNA test and if it's your give up your parental rights so she can't come after you in like 4 years for child support.

AND STOP ASKING THIS QUESTION!

What is wrong with you people, she doesn't want to agnolage him as the father anyway, so why should he be inclined to stick with her?

She doesn't want him as the father and he doesn't want to be the father, why is it his fault for not wanting to be there?

Answer 7

You need to take responsibly for the baby. It is yours. If you did not want a baby then you should have been protected.. That is sad that you are being like this..But then again there are a lot of guys that dont want to own up to what they  have done.

Answer 8

you better be man enough and claim your child bro. else you're gaaay. don you not think of that before you two do it? it's your fault anyway. why you let your sperms enter hers. tsk tsk tsk.

Answer 9

well there is nothing you can do, you not working hence you are unable to support her and the up coming kid. just finish your education and get a job then thats when you can now stand up as a man and start supporting her and the kid, honestly i belive there isnt any life without an education so you really need to work hard in college so you know you will be able to take care of you responsibilities without relying on people, its a tough world out there, whoever is supporting you isn't going to be arround forever so plan your future wisely and congrates on the up coming baby

Answer 10

How many times you plan on asking this?

If you have no intentions of manning up what then what can you do?

Let her go, and live the life she wants to live  

Answer 11

i'm disapponted in u. if u didnt want a child, u should've covered up. that baby didnt ask to be there. its because of guys like u, that many innocent babies suffer. if u cant do the time, dont do the crime

Answer 12

You should do the right thing and acknowledge your child. That disgusts me that you would hand over your child to another man you know nothing about. If you didn't want to be in the situation you should have been more careful when you were having s*x. Maybe you and the mother should discuss adoption. Since clearly that child deserves a better home than either of you can give.

Answer 13

So be a wussy and walk away.  The day will come that you will mature and realize that not knowing your child was the biggest mistake you ever made.  I hope you can live with yourself at that point.

Answer 14

Wow...Being a mother of a 16yr,old who is pregnant. I'm beyond disappointed in you. If in fact this child is yours it is not only your legal responsibility it is your moral responsibility. There are costs involve NOW that need to be handled such as insurance for the care for her and the baby, clothes as she grows, and a whole lot more of important things. If at first you can not talk to her parents then you need to talk to yours. Hope you have job!!!!! You can not hide a DNA test and I'm sure it will be done.  

Answer 15

Sounds like your mind is made up. Whats the question? You'll regret it one day. But if she wants the new guy to be the father then I guess your home free. Buy some condoms so you don't reproduce any more of you!

Answer 16

A baby might not be something you are ready for but don't just wipe your hands it, and she might say she is going to tell her parents it not yours now but eventually it will be reveled who's baby it is.Save yourself a lot of grief and be up front from the start offer your support if she doesn't want it then at least you tried . Baby's are a wonderful gift don't, not be part of the experience if it is yours you will regret it.  

Answer 17

oops! if she is claiming that she can get away with saying the other guy is the father then she obv is a s**t and has slept with you both at the same time. It is not fair that the other guy has to fund your offspring so own up and do the decent thing

Answer 18

When this baby is born and doesn't look like this other guy, he's prob going to question it and then beat the c**p out of you!!! OWN UP! That baby deserves a decent dad.........