What should i do....... (s*x LIFE)?

Question

Me and my husbands s*x life isn't so good. Well at least he isn't anyways. Every time me and him make love he closes his eyes as if hes thinking of someone els. I'v asked him numerous to open them back up but he closes them shut after 30 seconds. He never use to do this before. Do you think he's cheating on me or thinking of someone els?

Answer 1

First off, why are your eyes open?  I can't speak for everyone, but I'd feel even more creeped out if I knew my partner was watching me.

And how can closing your eyes suddenly turn into cheating on you?  Your imagination is running quite wild.  Give it a rest and try enjoying yourself like he's TRYING to enjoy himself.

Answer 2

I usually have my eyes closed during s*x. Unless their are other signs, I wouldn't worry about it in terms of him cheating. As far as him not being good in bed, you didn't elaborate so it's hard for me to answer that. Good luck.

Answer 3

Probably is a concentration issue.  You too should talk openly and honestly.  

Answer 4

He is concentrating on not loosing his erection. It will get worse.