What should i do about choosing my friends?

Question

well, people always say to find something in common.

im this sarcastic, laid,back, but still hyper. type of person, i could give a sh*t what other people think of me. im really big into golf and kinda basketball.

i dont know anybody in my school like that.

there are a couple guys like that, but no girls.

(imma girl)

i have no problem about hanging out with guys,

but then i have no one to talk about girl stuff.

what should i do?

Answer 1

I was always in your same situation... I rode Motocross growing up, so I always "fit" in more with the guys. Never really cared about the things that the other girls did in high school, and they never really seemed interested in the things that I was interested in. Not to say that I was unfriendly or unsocial towards any of them; however, I never had that "best girlfriend" whom I knew I could call at any hour of the night. I guess I learned how to iron out my own problems on my own. I turned out just fine... met the man of my dreams, and we talk about everything. Don't get discouraged... stay true to yourself. Never change who you are to fit in with the crowd.

Answer 2

Well obviously JOIN BASKETBALL AND GOLF TEAM!

Answer 3

Just do friendship with any girl that u know and try to keep her happy like always entertaining her

she will like to be with u always

If u are a good entertainer then u will get many friends

They will be always true to  u

Answer 4

just be yourself, somebody will be friends with you. Not everbody will like you. I became friends with girl, I never thoguht I could be friends with, and were still good to this day. Sometimes its harder to find girl friends then guy friends, because are more laidback then girls are. You'll find some good girls to be friends with.

Answer 5

You don't have to exactly have everything in common just make friends with a girl who has similar interests as you do.

Answer 6

You don't have to literally sit down and go through resume's and compatibility tests just to find a friend.  While in class or while at a game, you'll naturally click with someone.  There's not much of a science to finding friends.  It just happens naturally.  If you have more guy friends than girl friends, that's OK.  I was that way.  There will always be at least one girl that you'll click with though.  You just have to keep an open, nonjudgmental mind.  Be friendly and kind and treat others as you would want to be treated.  The rest will fall into place.

*lol  Yeah, girls have a bad habit of doing that throughout their teen years (and into adulthood too).  That's why I preferred guy friends.  Less drama!

Answer 7

Hey bru u sound exactly like me and im friends with poeple different to me but well its fun but sometimes sucks cuz there is a shortage of sarcastic hyper laid back people in thw world me get it

Answer 8

As hard as you may find it, you are going to have to pretend to be a little more girlie or it may be hard to find girls that like you.  Few girls are into basketball and golf.  That doesn't mean that you shouldn't have those interests, but tlalk more to other girls, dress and wear your hair more like other teens, and wear a little makeup.  In other words, try to fit in with the other girls in your school more and they will want to hang out with you more.  You can still have all of your guy pals and play golf and basketball.