What should i do about jealousy problems between my boyfriend and a friend?

Question

im 16 and ive been dating some one on and off for a year and i meet a guy that ive been friends with for longer than we have been dating and he hugs me. well my boyfriend gets mad and decides he wont give me a chance to explain the situation and blows off on me. What should i do guys?

Answer 1

you are found but disgusting. feel better?

Answer 2

Hun, youre 16!  leave the jealous controlling type.. go find a whole new type of boy and start a new relationship.  that's what High school's all about.... you'll kick yourself for not living high school to the fullest  if you miss out and stay with this controlling, jealous type.  

Answer 3

If your boyfriend blows you off because you hug a guy friend, tell him to get a grip! As long as you guys aren't kissing (you and your guy friend) and you've explained to your bf that you guys are best friends and you can hug then he shouldn't get that upset. If he does get upset again you should tell him to either 1. stop blowing you off. it's not like you and your guy friend are serious or 2. break up with him if he cant handle not being the only guy in your life.  

Answer 4

well you're 16, so the chance of you lasting with your boyfriend longer than 5 years is rare, besides, if he gets mad over a hug with a guy friend, imagine later in your life how he'll be. things usually get worst. tell him that if he appreciates you he should understand that he means allot to you, but that what he does is pushing you away.

Answer 5

Return the favor to him....blow him off. Dump him. No person girl or boy should stay in a relationship where their bf/gr is that jealous and controlling. He also seems to have an anger problem which could easily slide into physical abuse in the future.

Answer 6

HONEY,,I THINK U NEED TO TELL YOUR BF,,THAT U CAN N WILL HAVE OTHER FRIENDS WEATHER IT B GUYS OR GIRLS,,THAT HE NEEDS TO GROW UP,,CAUSE HIS ACTING LIKE A JEALOUSE LITTLE GIRL...N IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU HE WILL RESPECT YOUR WISHES,,N      HE  NEEDS    TO     CHILL OUT,,,,GOOD LUCK...............PEACE

Answer 7

first off i think he is feeling bad for something himself maybe you should be watching him and if nothing is going on between u and your friend why are you asking this question? you should just tell him to get over it or get on your friends before you his gf and he doesnt own you so he should back off