What should i do about my 2 poisonous sisters?

Question

i have 2 extremely weird and bitchy sisters . 1 of them is always calling up my boyfriends parents or visiting them , he is mostly out of the country and is least interested in her .

,, i dunt kno what her intentions are ,,, she is married btw , the other one is so bitter and mean tht i just dunt wona c her face again . they r both 5 years older than me . i am gettin married in 2 months . they both will be ther at the wedding . how should i deal with them . they will make sure that my mood is screwd and i feel terrible even on that day . if i fight back with them they complaing to evey1 . how shld i deal with them without getting upset . i cannot sit them down and talk to them . i have tried being polite and even being impolite . nothing works ,,,, they cant be uninvited either ,,,, its between the devil and the deep sea kinda situation ,,,,, plz help , i need some advice

Answer 1

They're probably jealous of you. On you're wedding day, just ignore them and have a great time! Don't tell everyone about your sisters, but it is okay to tell a friend or two,  

Answer 2

Ignore them, it's going to be you're day and you're husbands, let them spin their own web, relax and enjoy yourself.It's you're mood don't let them get to you,if they approach you just say excuse me and walk away. Please have a beautiful day, you deserve it,P.S. I have three sisters that ride brooms when they ain't aggravating me. I just ignore them.In fact I haven't spoke to the 3 of them for8 years.My life has been great but I still check the skies for broom trails. Ha Ha

Answer 3

dr. phil

Answer 4

Rise above them.  Be polite, and your

focus should be on your new life.  Let

the love and joy for that new life drown

out their comments.

Answer 5

ignore every rude thing they say and fire back with only compliments.  

Answer 6

It is your day, and congratulations.  With this said, they will be true to form.  Misery loves company, and they don't want to see you happy because they aren't happy.  I have learned with my sister, that the best thing to do is be me.  She and my mom call me Polyanna, or Cinderella, because I always strive for contentment and happiness.  I have also learned that they feed off of people reacting to the bitchyness.  So, don't let it effect you.  I know that this is hard to do with 2 months of practice.  Just say to yourself when you feel they are ruffling your feathers:  I choose to be happy today, though the skies may be cloudy and grey, no matter what comes my way.  I choose to be happy today.  It's corny enough to make you laugh at yourself, and it is a good training tool for dealing with difficult people.  

Answer 7

They are just jealous, regardless of whether they are ur sister's are not, u should not allow anyone to treat u like c**p and disrespect u. I would stay away from them and don't invite them to ur wedding. I'm pretty sure that they are aware of how much pain they are causing u, and for some reason enjoy it. Don't help them make themselves feel better at ur own cost.