What should i do about my best friend...?

Question

Well I'm a 15 year old guy. My friend is my age and I really like her. She is my best friend and we are super close. Now, she knows I like her...she says she kinda likes me...but I really don't know how to approach her because I don't know if I want to ask her out or not because I see a few possible outcomes...If she say's no, then I'm afraid of losing her as a best friend cause she may find it awkward to be around me after wards. If she says yes, and we go out then break up..once again, things may be awkward. I guess what i'm most scared about is losing my best friend...

...What should I do?

Answer 1

i had the same problem

you just have to make a decision

you can go out with her, and hope it will go well

the only problem in it is if you break up, you may not be friends

but if she is a great friend

and you trust her

you can still be friends even if you do breakup

maybe you would go out and realize that you have a stronger connection just being friends

good luck <3

Answer 2

take it really slow and find out if she likes you.

but this is a risky thing to do.

all relationships end in a heartbreak.

when and if you guys break up (if you even ask her out) try to forget about ur bumps in the road and try being friends.

if you break up, you can never be in the same relationship as u were before, but you can still make it happen.

xx

Answer 3

Play hard to get, if she stays around. then ask her out. but if she says forget it then just be her best friend. easy as pie.. not that easy but thats how you sum it up.

Answer 4

You should go for her- things might get awkawrd for a while, but since you guys are such close friends now, you guys would be able to pull through the awkwardness and be friends again.

Answer 5

leave things the way they are, don't approach her or ask her out yet, wait a while ,then do something.

Answer 6

Don't go out than because you are so young that it won't last and your friendship will.

Answer 7

Decide what is important to you, your best friend- or a short term relationship that isn't going to last.  If you want to keep her longer, don't go out with her or you'll lose her.  Tough reality.  

Answer 8

basically you should tell her how you feel tell her that you would like to go out with her but if she doesn't fell the same way then you guys could remain close

Answer 9

Best friends are forever, lovers are for a little while.

Answer 10

Ahh a typical problem i suggest u take it slowly  

Answer 11

well it all depends on the personality of this girl.

i was in the same situation once. and it was a bit akward.

i mean you could give it a try. but make sure you both talk a lot during your relationship. be open and dont hold back. if its a little wierd..tell her about it. she might be feeling the same thing. its better to be honest. if she's cool then she will get it. if not and shes a huge drama queen....well good luck buddy.

Answer 12

same thing happened to me ..we've been dating for a little over a year now and it's possibly the best thing that's happened to me :) the fact that we were best friends before made our relationship that much stronger ..we were already comfortable around each other and already knew so much about each other .

talk to your friend and if you decide to go for it just make a pact to stay best friends no matter what happens !

hope all works out for you ! :)

Answer 13

Only one solution. Kill her, but first go to Home Depot to buy a shovel and some rope. Your also going to need to know a good spot to dump the body.............OK SERIOUSLY: You wont lose her no matter what if she truly is your best friend. Keep that in mind, you wont lose anything by trying to be more than freinds. Establsih to her that you will always have friendship as a base.

Answer 14

Wait and Let her say that she loves you

Answer 15

take it slow.