What should i do about my bf?? help!???

Question

what to do about my bf?? we just recently starting going out and he hasnt called be in over a week! idk what to do. he works nights but he always has time to call be if its even in the mornings. i called him three days in a row he didnt answer. i sent him a text saying i was mad at him and he didnt respond. i thought that maybe he lost his phone or something but he would have called me on his house phone atleast. and i saw him on facebook a couple of days ago. so he has time for facebook but doesnt have time to call me??? what is going on idk what to do help!! last time we were together we had a good time laughing and everything. i know he's not in trouble or anything like that. i dont understand and i dont wanna believe he's a bad guy because he's really not. wtf is going on what should i do??

Answer 1

I would contact him one last time - either via phone or text and let him know that this is the last time you are going to contact him.  Tell him you are not sure what is going on, but that you'd like to speak with him.  And then just leave it at that.  If he doesn't call you back within a timely fashion (i.e. a few days), then, I hate to say it, but he's not a very good boyfriend.  Or, unfortunately, another way of seeing it is that he's just not that into you - and that's okay - you deserve someone better.  BTW - how old is he?  He seems to be acting really childish.  

Answer 2

First of all, he is quite rude, at least give a call if he has a change of heart and does not want to see you or just needs some space. People who leave others just waiting knowing very well they care for you are inconsiderate and disrespectful.  I definitely would stop trying to have him call you at this point.  Believe me he is getting your messages especially if you have just recently been aware he was on facebook. You don't want to give the impression you are needy and clingy so your only alternative to have selfrespect is to leave him alone for awhile and see if he contacts you now. In the meantime if I were you, I would hang out with friends and keep yourself busy so you don't get tempted to keep on trying to reach him. This also is a good time to see if he really cares about you, because if he does he will most surely contact you. Good luck and all the best.

Answer 3

if he isnt answering then you should try ur best to give it time and im sure he will come around. its best to ask him whats up but in person not over mail or phone.

Answer 4

If a guy doesn't talk to you for a week, something's going on. That's all I gotta say.

Answer 5

I'd like to say something is going wrong with him. Go and find him you need to figure it out something between you and him. Or maybe you give him more time to get used to be with you. Good luck! You'll be find.  

Answer 6

Sounds like he has trouble with his attention span. He is a teen boy, I assume. He probably lost interest. Maybe he's interested in something or someone else. Happens all the time. If a guy doesn't call you in a week, forget him, don't waste your time, tears, or energy on him. Move on and if he does ever call you, don't answer or call him back, give him a taste of his own medicine. Even good guys act badly sometimes.