What should i do about my boyfriends ex calling him?

Question

So my bf's ex keeps calling him. at first it's only cuz she wanted her jacket back. so he got her address and stuff to send it to her. 2 days later she calls again and i answer and she gives me a fake name. And theres just too many things adding up!! Like how many times has she called b4 and why in the 15 mins they guys talked and her asking how he was doing did he not once tell her about me??? I mean what the heck? Now i know his mom gave her the # to call. But why are last 2 months cingular bills missing? which infact would have her number on there if they have been talking. and he's the kinda guy that keeps everything. so they shouldnt be missing. What should i do????

Answer 1

Girl, I've been there. A couple of times with men who just freak out on me and make it a 'trust' issue and once with my now hubby and he called her on the phone in front of me and gave her a rude wakening.

You have to tell him how you feel, besides isn't that's what you would want him to do? Yeah, and I don't get why he didn't tell her unless he's trying to leave his options open, and that's hard to tell how bad that it since that depends how serious you both are.

When you do plea your case, ask him to pull up the phone bills online. Maybe, you have all the info you need to pull it up yourself, since you have access to his files. Just go to http://www.wireless.att.com:80/cell-phon... and go to 'my account' and try to create and account (unless he already did, then good luck figuring out the password). Sorry to say, but it may not be her number he's hiding.

Whatever you find out, give him a chance to explain things. I know for me it spoke volumes that my man, even when we were dating, would let me see his phone, bills, voicemail code or anything I wanted because he wants me to trust him. He knows that anyone who has nothing to hide won't care so much that if his special someone looks.

I would be ready for whatever bull stuff he can dish out and make your decision(s) what to do before you get in the confrontation. That is if there is one since you may get online and just leave only your hair off your brush behind.

I hope you find nothing. Believe me, a man who loves you enough to be open and honest feels so much better on the heart... and our blood pressure.

Hope this helps, good luck!!!