What should i do about my crush problem?

Question

so there is this guy. his name is kyle. i really feel like i love him even though i haven't ever gone out with him. yet he makes me smile every time i see him especially wen I'm really sad!!

i love him because he's always been there. he never makes rude comments. he's nice. he's sweet. &&nd he really cares! he makes me smile, and most of all he's different then anyone i've ever met!

yet the problem is that kyle is really popular!!, and im just an average person who hangs out with lots of popular kids. i feel like im an outsider when im around him... another thing is it breaks my heart to see him when he's upset, and i can't do anything about it.

it's been abt 2 years, yet i feel like i've known him for all my life!

it's sad cause i've even tried to forget him, but i always end up bac where i left off......secretly hiding my true feelings for him!

so if anybody would like to help!! -- please i need advice....

**weather to tell him i love him or just go on and act like i dnt.

Answer 1

It is really hard to tell your best friend your in love with him. I think you just have to continue the relationship as friends and if something does happen it will have to be the right time and place don't force it. A lot of times guys who are best friends are just best friends. I had two when I was growing up and I didn't let them ever know . I really think deep down they knew I liked them but never made that step forward so I didn't. Drop a couple of hints and if he bites real him in. If it is meant to be it will happen if not grin and bear it. I'm happily married now and I wouldn't go back and change a thing.

Answer 2

TELL HIM. It's not good to keep all of your feelings cooped up inside of you. If you like him that much you really need to tell him how you feel. Good luck and i hope things turn out well.

Help me if you can.

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Answer 3

don't be like me, sitting here alone answering's stranger's question on a saturday night because i'm having no romance partner. It's all because I thought the same thing as you do now (of course it toward girls)

Answer 4

take him over to hang out with ur group. have him dress like your click also that way they wont dis-own him.

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Answer 5

Honestly, I'm in the same exact situation...except it's been 4 years and I still haven't worked up the nerve to do what really needs to be done.

You need to tell him how you feel. It's the only chance you have. You never know, he may feel the same way about you and he could have been just as scared of some sort of rejection. Go for it. Don't wait like me or it will just turn to hurt. Because if you wait for that guy, then you'll just keep waiting and nothing will happen and you'll be the one writing advice you should be taking yourself...

Good luck!

Answer 6

Go for it. Pull him aside so it's just the two of you and talk to him about it.  

Answer 7

sounds like he really might be a nice guy but you might be seeing him thru rose colored glasses... meaning he cant do anything wrong in your eyes.  what you could do is honestly go up to him and say that you like him and would like to get to know him better. if he gives you the cold shoulder then move on but still be satisfied that you tried and always just smile when you see him in the future.  you never know when he might see you the same way.

Answer 8

tell him. either he loves you back and your happy. and if he doesn't then you can move on to someone else. there are other fish in the sea.

Answer 9

baby, you live just one life...and later when we grow older we always regret the things that we didn't do, and not the ones that we did...so definitly tell him about your feelings!! even if he doesn't react the way you would want him too, at least you'll get that heavy load off your chest and move on!!

good luck to you!!

Answer 10

dear kyle,

please let him know if you have feelings for her

don't keep it secret