What should i do about my ex?

Question

i was with a lad who i didnt realised i loved but knew i had strong feelings for him, we broke up cuz his best mate said he loved someone else n so i said its not gonna work and he said please dont end it. (he was the one who said he loved me first). i realised i loved him and we stil talk. we decided to keep seein each other for s*x and i should be meetin him this week. i want him back though, do you reckon i should just tell him or not let him no how i feel and just have a laugh and fun with him and hope that he might realise he misses me?

Answer 1

stop that fooling around.

it's time to sit down, speak to him, and tell him that u love him.

you're not a s*x machine and your relationship shouldn't be based on s*x in the first place.

Answer 2

Definitely tell him where you stand. Tell him that you won't be seeing each other just for s*x anymore and that he should think about what he wants too (after you've told him what you want... which is to get back together). Then stick to your guns and let him contact you when he knows what he wants. I am not a big fan of ex's getting back together, but it can work sometimes and if you think it can work there is no sense wasting your time not trying.