What should i do about my mental abusive boyfriend?

Question

he is always taking our agruments to his friends and telling me that they say he should break up with me. he takes things that i say and do and twist them around until it is all my fault. he calls me a liar and a cheat but won't do anything about it. i told him i have done nothing wrong and will never apologise for it or change so he needs to start thinking for himself or break up with me.

Answer 1

Dump him and "pants" him

Answer 2

Surprise him and get a new boyfriend!

Answer 3

lstn ur boyfriend wants and is tryin to break up with you!

and if that was not true then u dont deserve to b treated like this and he doesnt deserve u! u should love urself! and respect urself! which am sure u are considering!

save ur face water! and leave him!

u`d b doing a good thing! u seem like a good person!

and a million other guys out there would love to b with you!

goodluck! take care of urself!

Answer 4

And you are going out with this jerk,  why? Break up with him . Let him find somebody else to abuse ... Do you really need this c**p in your life?

Answer 5

you should dump him. there's no reason he should be treating you like that.

Answer 6

Break up with him, he has issues of his own, maybe low self esteem, who knows but hes wrong if hes treating you that way. He will never treat you normal and dont expect to change him. It doesnt work.

Answer 7

this is the easiest answer I've ever given..Dump his ***!...I know right now your saying "yeah easy for you to say." Actually it is..I've been there..The worst 18 months of my life!..But enough was enough and when it came right down to it he made me feel like I was absolutely nothing..That I'd never be able to get another guy..*and put it this way..he wasn't the skinniest guy..or the brightest..or the best lookin'..but he had an awesome personality* Anyways..So I began to think I never would..WRONG...now I'm with the best guy..He's handsome..fit..nice..sweet..attentive..A... most of all supports me in whatever I feel like accomplishing at the moment..move on chicky..the grass is always greener..

Answer 8

Seriously, you don't need that in your life. Even if you were doing the things that he describes, he really should keep your relationship between the two of you. I think he is the one with the problem. If he is so unhappy with you, then let him go. Let's see what he talks to his friends about then???

Best Wishes  

Answer 9

You haven't left this jerk yet?

Do you think you deserve this abuse? Girl, you can't dump this loser fast enough. You deserve better. Every woman deserves better.

Go. Now.

Answer 10

This is a dumb question from someone looking for attention.  Obviously, you should break up with someone who treats you poorly.  It's not rocket science.....

Answer 11

Leave him.  Don't be silly.  He's got serious problems.  You're wasting your time.  It can get worse.