What should i do about my neighbor? please answer.

Question

i have the biggest fcker as a nieghbor!

see i have some family livin behind me and i guess the dad i would believe is being a total dickk and telling me and my family to shut up and otehr things. when ever we are in our backyard just like talking at a normal level or making a noise like no louder than an air conditioner starting he comes out and says something rude usually to shut up. and none of my other neighbors seem to care or even hear us do anything. i should actually be the one telling that fcker to shut up cuz him and his family always have partys at till like 12 in the morning.

so yeah what should i do hes told me, my 2 sisters, and my friends to shut up and told us other things and its annoying the **** out of me

please be realistic dont tell me to kill him or anything

what would you do?

Answer 1

What an a**. He obviously likes bothering you guys. I would say something back to him and stick up for myself if I was in that situation. And I know it sounds childish, but I would tell him to be quiet when he has his parties.

-man, some people just like to really bother others.

Answer 2

I'd tell him to shut the f up.

Answer 3

Wow, what an ***.

Next time he says something, stick up for yourself. If he doesn't stop and has a party, call the cops on him.

If he keeps harassing you, report him to the police.  

Answer 4

It sounds as if you need a parent intervention.  Tell our folks and they should actually witness him doing this (if not, he'll just claim that you kids are lieing).

If that's not doable, then kill him with kindness (not the other kind of killing).  When he yells at you, respond with a very kind way and ask him why does he think that we are making too much noise?  Ask him what his level of tolerance is and try to compromise.

If all of the above doesn't work, then you can....(you know the word to insert here). (joke).

Next.

Answer 5

Mediation.  Professional mediation can prevent things from getting out of control.

Call your local city or county for direction.  Otherwise you have no choice except to involve law enforcement.

Answer 6

get a fence and put up a public property sign so he can't enter your yard.  and ignore him.  poor guy must have nothing better to do with his life than bother others.  how sad for him!

Answer 7

just go out there and stand up to him and tell him its your house and you can do whatever you want in it. and if you think you can take him in a fight then if he gets on your property then fight him. but usally tell him to shut the h**l upi and to get back in his house before you whoop his asss