What should i do about this embarassing situation?

Question

i am in grade ten and my brother had a party that he didnt want me to go to because he knew me and my friends would get drunk. i went anyways, should have listened, got drunk and hooked up with a disgusting guy. hes a huge loser who bragged about it and people tease me about it all the time. i feel so stupid, am i a bad person? i dint mean for this to happpen.

please keep your comments as non judgmental as possible im kind of pissed off

Answer 1

haha coyote ugly...

Answer 2

You're not a bad person. You're a person who made a mistake you're probably not going to make again. Your brother knew you'd get drunk and YOU knew you'd get drunk.

You made a mistake and you can learn from it. When you 'experiment' make sure you're in a supportive environment with friends you can trust. By being strong you can learn to trust your self, but right now you're having doubts.

Be kind to your self and your self will be kind to you!

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Answer 3

No, you're not a bad person. At least not yet. Just make sure you learn from this and don't do it again. If you keep doing things like that, well then you can't really blame anyone but yourself.

But, I have to ask, if this guy was so disgusting, why did you hook up with him? I know you were drunk, but that doesn't completely alter your tastes, just removes your inhibitions. I'm not trying to give you a hard time, I just want you to really examine your feeling and figure out what made this guy acceptable at the time. Then you can deal with whatever that is.

Good luck.

Answer 4

Robert, is that you? I KNEW you were g*y.

Answer 5

First of all you are not a bad person everyone makes stupid mistakes and perhaps you are just lucky to learn at a relatively young age getting drunk can often lead to poor choices.   You should act like the teasing doesn't bother you, just smile and ignore (it'll drive the teasers crazy because they want to see you squirm) and by taking this approach you have taken back your power and believe me people will move on to a new subject...as for the guy, if he mentions it again just tell him he was a drunken mistake and a lesson learned and to move on. One thing I know about high school is that "drama" occurs every weekend so this too will past.

Answer 6

First of all you're not willing to see what you did was STUPID! Second, you aren't willing to OWN IT and admit you have a drinking problem. And third, you ARE bad to the extent you don't want to listen to anybody (your brother). And fourth, unitl you do admit you have a drinking problem and get help, you'll probably do it again.

P.S. You're only pissed because you got busted--not because you were doing wrong. That was my judgemental opinion. Here's my nonjudgemental one. What you did was okay and the guy who ratted you out is a scumbag. But you already know that.

Answer 7

you are not bad at all and as far as him bragging dont worry like you said he is a loser but you no what sometimes your brother is looking out for you so try to listen to him  

Answer 8

No, you're not a bad person. You made a stupid mistake but everyone has before. Make sure you're okay, did you use protection? Just simply ignore what he says and refuse to comment on it.

Oh, and don't get drunk. It's not fun. Most people here will tell you to wait til you're 21, but I'll tell you how I feel. If you go to a party, just have a couple drinks. When you feel tipsy, quit. It only goes downhill after that anyway.

So feel better, you're not a bad person at all. Be careful.

Answer 9

You ARE a bad person. Good people make stupid mistakes. Bad people make bad mistakes. Straiten up, or it will get worse.

Answer 10

that's ur problem.