What should i do and what should i say?

Question

well yesterday at my new job i had problems and this man flin helped me i took him out for a drink that night after he hugged me i got into my car then he snogged me well today i was at my other job when one of the workers gave me a bunch of flowers they said it was from a man flin i couldn't believe it i haven't told my husband about yesterday night now what am i going to do about these flowers i don't want to split up with my husband as i have a son with him and i am 2 months pregnant with his 2nd child i love him so much what am i going to do !!!!can anyone help me =)

Answer 1

dnt tell him a snogs a snog

Answer 2

tell flin u r not interested. ur married, pregnant and u already have a child

Answer 3

Just be honest with your husband. Tell him that this man helped you out so you tried to return the favor by taking him out. Obviously this man thought it meant more than you did. And I would also let Flin know that you are happily married and anything more than a friendship with him is inappropriate.

Answer 4

tell him the truth.the worst thing you can do is lie or hide something from your husband,it'll come back to bight u in the *ss.

from what u say u were just being thankfull and nice,it was totally inosant.this flin guy mis understood ur intentions.

Answer 5

Your not going to like this.............but you led this man on and invited trouble. You need to tell him that you are married and love your husband and then do not put yourself in a situation that makes him think that you are open to his advances. Also you should not be drinking when you are pregnant.  

Answer 6

Stop it beofre it starts, I would tell my husband that a guy really hleped you at work so you bought him a drink and now you think you gave him the wrong impression, you did nothing wrong other than try to return the favor, people just read into things too much, tell the guy wow the flowers are beautiful, but I am married and my husband is jealous, and play it off.

Answer 7

I would walk up to flin and tell him just like it is. I hope that you did not read anything more into that hug.  It was truly just appreciation for helping me at work.  The flowers are nice,but I truly want you to know that I am happily married with a child an another on the way. I sincerely hope that we can remain as friends.  Then I would go home that afternoon and explain the situation to your husband and let him know what has taken place.  That you want him to know, because you have nothing to hide nor he has no reason not to trust you that you are totally committed and love him.

Answer 8

Tell Flin that you aren't interested in him...throw away the flowers and tell your husband the truth about taking Flin out for a drink...because if you don't....someone else may!  

Answer 9

Don't keep secrets from your husband, it will only cause you pain if he finds out, and as for Flin, let him know that you are happily married and you took him out for a drink for the help he gave you. Tell him your husband will not appreciate him giving you flowers so you can't accept them.