What should i do? date help!?

Question

oka well there is this guy my friend told me about and gave me his e-mail and we have been talking for two days. He told me he really likes me and that we should meet sometime. ( knowing he is safe i asked my brother about him, he goes to the same high school ) and he is so sweet and open. I really like him back and so now we are going on a date friday night. My two friends are coming with us so i feel a little better and he said he is tottaly fine with that :)

but i give all my friends big hugs when i see them and i know he is the cuddly type, he told me ina game of truth lol, and but should i give him a hug, too? like i know i should just be able to feel confortable around him andi probably will but the more i talk to him on msn the more i like him and the more excited and nervous i get. Should i tell him im nervous and just ask him? we are going to the movies and dinner at the mall, if he trys to hold my hands and puts his arm around me and stuff like that, should i let him? likei would feel oka with that but, its going to be our first time meeting, so would that be to much?

Im prob. worrying for nothing but i want to make sure all is good :)

Answer 1

I think putting his arm around you and the odd kiss at the pictures is fine,if that's okay by you of course.

I imagine he's as nervous as you.

Just have a fun night,relax and do what you think is appropriate for a young lady

Answer 2

Well i think that is too cute!

But dont be nervous! :)

I think if you really like him then go and just have fun!!!

if he tries to put his arm around you...let him! (if your comfortable about it)

&& if he goes too far til where u do feel uncomfortable then just tell him.

he sounds reasonable =)

Plus..your two friends are going!

so i think it'll be G-R-E-A-T-T-T!!

Answer 3

Tell him how u feel that your kinda nervous i mean he prbly is too its very good thing ur having ur friends go with u single dates r just awkward in high school yeah let him hold you and stuff thats fine just dnt let him get to far no kissing and stuff not that not yet at least;) if u feel uncomfortable after a while just tell ur GFs there and get one of them to say they are feeling sick and leave...U should totally give him a small hug i mean dont linger or anything just u know a little flirty thing:)

Good luck

Answer 4

well if i was him i would give you room if i really did like you and i wouldn't want to make you feel uncomfortable.  so what i am trying to say is you shouldn't being worrying about this because he is worrying about it enough for the both of you right now.  you'll be good don't worry about anything just don't give him too much if you are going to give him anything.  good luck girl.  i hope you enjoy the movie and the dinner.

Answer 5

If your totally excited about him then yeah just let him if he wants to go farther than you want to just tell him that. If he is really sweet and open he won't want to pressure you into doing something that you aren't ready for. Just be yourself first dates are really nerve racking!

Answer 6

Well Im not sure how much yu guys can really like each other if yu've only been talking for two days nd only on the internet. But it is a good idea to have yur friends there. I hug all of my friends too! All the time. So just hug him. It doesn't have to be when yu first see him but like maybe when yur going home. As far as holding hands and stuff, If he trys to hold yur hand the rest is up to yu. Yu have to know if yu want to hold his hand back nd yu have to be confrotable with it. Don't do it just cus he wants to or bcus everyone is looking at yu. Yu are going to be the only one to know that. We can't tell yu what to do about that.

Hope this helped! Have fun!!!!  

Answer 7

just do what feels right because sometimes you have to take a risk but never forget about the subconsciousness and always TRY thinking things through

hope this helped u :D instead of confusing u lol

Answer 8

First off, you can give him a hug, thats a good greeting for someone you like.  Second, guys hate it when a girl brings her friends on a date, especially a first one.  I don't care what he says, he would prefere to be alone with you.  How do you expect to get to know him when your friends are there, what will happen is that you and your friends will be chating becuase you know each other and he will feel left out and you will not have a chance to really get to know him.  As far as holding hands is concerned, you will have to decide that after you meet him and see if you like him.

If you must bring your friends, at least tell him that he can bring his, that will give your friends somthing to talk to each other about while you two talk.

Answer 9

If you're comfortable with it, would YOU consider it too much? There are no rules in dating. It's just what you're ok with and what you're not.  

Answer 10

just go with the flow...I'm sure you are worrying over nothing,it all sounds good

Good luck and enjoy!

Answer 11

ur just too nervous...lol...but thats typically fine...!!

about you getting cozy with him n vice versa, it all depends on how comfortable you are with him, and if the idea of him cozing up with you doesnt bother you, then just enjoy and let him do what he would do....it all depends on YOUR comfort level!!!!!

but yes, if ur that nervous, you can feel free to ask him whether you can hug him, etc...you never know what he has in mind right?????

so chillout and instead of getting nervous, just enjoy your first date with him and make it the most memorable one....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 12

get 2 know him 1st in person, then see where the night goes. DONT DO ANYTHING YOU ARE NOT OF WITH. if it feels right when he holds your hand and puts his arm around you...then do it... :)