What should i do family member was getting abused she is my sister?

Question

i am pretty sure her bf is hitting her but she wont talk to me i heard her crying in her room

Answer 1

Talk to your sister.  Mention your concern to your parents.  Watch who she has around her, what her appearance or emotional state when she returns home.  If anything is wrong, there is a pattern.  Whatever you do don't assume the situation will correct itself.  You must show your love by being involved.

Answer 2

I would push her to talk to you. Tell her that you seen the bruises or whatever on her. Tell her you have heard her crying and stuff and that if she refuses to talk to you that you will have to tell your mom and dad. If that don't get her talking then follow through with the threat and tell your mom and dad about it. Or if your strong enough then go to the bf and kick his a**.  

Answer 3

Tell your parents.It may not be abuse.However if she has bruises and stuff, you make sure you get your parents involved.

Answer 4

call the police when they are fussing. or tell ya parents when they are fussing, or maybe just make up a story about some one u know, who was getting abused and didnt tel no body, and then one day she got hurt so bad, dat she was in a coma for the rest of her life

Answer 5

I can't believe this question has been live for 8 minutes and nobody has answered. Sweetie, please call the police or tell your parents. If he is mean enough to hit her than what if it gets out of hand one time and he kills her? He could even accidentally kill her by hitting her the wrong way. How adamant where you when you asked to talk to her? were you timid about it? If you were, try the tough love approach. "YOU NEED TO TALK TO ME OR YOU COULD GET SERIOUSLY HURT OR EVEN KILLED" is maybe something you could say. If she still won't, then call the police. She might be in fear of her safety if she talks and the police can help with that. Also you could try using an abuse hot line too. You can find one in the phone book. Good luck and you and your sister will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Answer 6

i agree with JOE here,  GO AND TELL

TELL THE PARENTS

silence can be deadly