What should i do? guy trouble i need help?

Question

Ok well i like this boy i know from my church and i like him well i have feelings for him but i never see him because he lives in a different city and if i do see him its like every 2 years seems like. So i don't know if he even knows i exist. I have known him for a long time because our parents are good friends but now they keep in touch by phone only.

i wanna tell him when ever i see him that i like him but i don't have enough courage to do that i'm not the type of girl that would do that.

Any advice

also if i do get the courage i don't want to get rejected or s

Answer 1

just think about it, if you don't ask him he won't know that you like him so you probably won't get together with him.

and don't worry about what city you live in, if you love him then you will be able to live with it, i am in a worse situation because the love of my life lives in a different country to me.....but we still love each other more than anything and just look forward to the day we see each other again.

so just tell him how you feel and don't worry about the distance between you.

and if he rejects you then its obvious that he doesn't love you so dont worry about it.

Answer 2

Well, you may be rushing just a little bit.  Try doing things that he does and talk to him about that, or even do it with him!  Then try to get a place to train that's near his city, and when you do your thing, have him come along.

Answer 3

well the thing is, if you have a crush on a guy who lives in a completely different city (i don't know if it's THAT far away or not) and you'll only be seeing him every two years, what is the point on only focusing on that one guy? Trust me, I know how it feels but you've got to move on, I'll bet there are PLENTY of guys where you're from. No need to just focus on one who you won't be seeing for a while. And who knows, maybe another guy will come around. When he does, start slow, go from friends (but not friend zone) and work your way up to more than friends. (:

Answer 4

You should get to know him first.  Ask him for his facebook or phone number next time you see him, then randomly send him a message.  See how he responds.  It's a good way to build a foundation to a relationship.

Answer 5

you should make him a mixtape

Answer 6

if you guys barely see eachother it probaly wont work out. i would wait till you start seeing him more often. if you dont want to tell him you like him you can flirt a little with him next time you see him, and maybe he'll be the one that tells you he likes you =)

Answer 7

It sounds like you're young, right?

Life is short and living it to the fullest is my motto. I can only tell you what 40 + years has taught me, and then you can decide for yourself what to do. Communication is key to everything in life. It is acceptable (and flattering) for a female to show interest and or ask a male out on a date. Asking someone on a date or a simple exchange of phone numbers is only a sign of wanting to get to know that person. If the person says no do not take it personally, they were not the one God has planned for you anyway.

Good luck and pray about it.

1knight0

Answer 8

Ask your parents what they think of him.  If they know his parents and approve of him they will help you get together.  

Because I don't know how old you are, it is harder to give advice.

You could ask your parents to give you his families number and call to ask him about when he goes to church (or other things you may have in common) I like to call and just ask where the person got some piece of clothing you saw them wearing and want to know where you can get it for your friend because it would look as good on them as it did on him, so it seems innocent and yet complimentary.

Then if you start a conversation you can always say, "we should hang out some time."  Which is not exactly asking him out but you can get a sense of how he feels.

Good luck.

Answer 9

well, i think you should call this boy, adn ask him if theres anyway you can meet up, if you can then meet up with him, and try to see if things are what they thought they were, if they are then yes you shouold tell him, theres no way to get rejected if your parents are still friends so you'll sitll be able to see this boy whenever you can and who knows maybe he feels the same way about you!

Hope everything works out, xoxoxoxo ashley!

Answer 10

well just next time you see him

just say

hey dude

our parents are like best friends and we dont even talk

thats really stupid you know?

introduce yourself

ask what school he goes to

and ask for email or somthing if your feelings bold

but one thing is dont let your shy nature stop you from lettitng your feelings out

just go for it

but dont seem too loud or werid

just do everythig i said but casually

and remember to smile

Answer 11

srry long distance relationships almost never work out FORGET him

Answer 12

i would start by just talking to him and see where things go.

your parents knowing his is an advantage.

Answer 13

sounds to me like you really need to take advantage of the time you do have with him.

if you're shy, you dont HAVE to majorly flirt with him, you can do it at your own pace.

but the very least youu should do is talk to him and be friendly, he may find you're a really cool person and like you as much as you are liking him  

Answer 14

next time you are in the same town, ask him to hang out over texting or the computer and then get to know him that way. hang out with him as much as you can so you can see if you really do like him and if you decide you do, then just tell him before he has to leave! who knows he could even tell you first :P