What should i do he just want s*x and i don't want to?? plz help me?

Question

okay so i just met this guy about a month ago and he is mad cool and funny i really like his personality but he always telling me how he want to have s*x with me since the day i started talking to him i asked him if he just wanted to get into my pants and he said no he don't care if we do it or not he just want to be friends cuz he really like talking to me cuz I'm down to earth and all that stuff so i went to the movies with him and he was all touching me in places that made me feel really uncomfortable now I'm scared to chill with him i told him i don't wanna have s*x but I'm scare he might try something n e ways; I'm suppose to go to the movie with him tomorrow what should i do?? i have been raped before and ever since then i don't feel comfortable being alone with a boy i don't know dat well and i can't bring one of my friends cuz they are all working or away at school; my friend who is also friends with him is telling me i have nothing to worry about cuz she chill with him all the time and he never cro

Answer 1

be honest with him.  tell him what makes you uncomfortable and why you feel what you feel.  and if you really are certain you do not want to have s*x with him, tell him straight up and be firm.  then see where it goes.  if he is chill like he seems, there should be no probs.  as for the movies, hold your purse in your lap if you feel uncomfortable, or talk to him before the movie.  good luck and be safe  :)