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What should i do? i'm so confused have i made the right disicion, please tell me wat you think.?

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My grandmother(my mums, mum) ruined my mums life by making her move to Australia and marry a man she didn't know and most of all didn't love(didn't even love him in the future, he's that of an a*****e). Anyway i know she'll ruin my life to, today wen we talked to her on the phone she said that i should be with a Serbian(or a guy that was born in Australia but his parents come from Serbia) so she can talk to him and all that. I know that she's just saying it like this because she knows that i dnt have a bf rite now n i don't like or love anyone at the moment. The truth is i love this most amazing guy, he makes me soooooo happy and i feel so much things that i haven't felt before, i'm miserable without him he really truely the most bestest thing in my life the actually really truely makes me happy. He was here in Australia like me and his parents are from Serbia just like mine, thats wat kind of guy she wants me to be with so she can talk to him and understand him. i know that she will make him leave me like she did with my mum n my mums fiance. i've dicided that i'm not gonna tell her that i'm with him until we get married. were not together yet but i love him so much and i know that he feels the same way(he told me n he meant it). i don't want her to wreck my life aswell, i love him with everything and with my whole heart, he's the only person that brings happiness to my life. have a made a good decision not to tell her anything?

P.S my mum doesn't care wat i do at least i'm happy because she wasn't.

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  1. Do what feels right.  But i wouldnt tell your gramma until your are sure your going to marry him.. becuase she could make it hard for you two.


  2. Ignore granma and do what you think is best for you. She cannot force you to marry someone you don't love. Since your mom is just happy that your happy, go with that and leave all the deatils out for grandma. She doesn't need to know what's going on and you don't need to listen to her "arranged marriage" idea. Enjoy your life and be with the one you want to be with.

  3. Well you sound like you know what your going to do. I think you've done the right thing seeing as your Nan ruiend your mum's life. If your happy then thats all that really matters right??

    Dont be too secretive because it always gets out, if you really dont want your nan to know then just be careful :)

    All the best

    Daisy x

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