What should i do i have a hothead

Question

somebody insults me i like to insult them to the part were they almost start to cry like if somebody says shut up i say something like shut the **** up you dumb ***** and i wish you say something like that again so i can beat your ***.What should i do about my hot head?

Answer 1

Take an anger management course...

To get more answers to your question, you'd probably be better off putting it in another category...like psychology.  This isn't a swiming and diving question.

Answer 2

you may want to cool off or get management control counselling  

Answer 3

Don't feel bad, I'm exactly the same way.

Except, I usually dont wait for them to say something to me, one wrong look, and I fire off, "What the f**k are you f***king lookin at?"

Or, someone cuts me off in the store or pisses me off in some subtle way, "What the f**k is your problem? Stupid b***h!!!?"

Someones staring at me for no reason, "I will f**k you up b***h!"

Yea, I've got the same problems lol.

I just wait for them to take it further.

I dont know what the problem is, low self esteem? Anger complex? *** beating complex???  Probably a mix lol.

Answer 4

I would say GROW UP.

If that fails, how about a doctor to address stress issues or possibly anger management & anti-depressants.

But mostly, practice self-control. Otherwise you may just mouth off to someone who won't be intimidated & will physically harm you severely

Answer 5

this isn't swimming and diving...should of put it in psychology

Answer 6

Seek counseling in the form of anger management classes or therapy. This doesn't sound like something that you can get through by practicing your own self-control.  

Answer 7

Your problem will be solved once you encounter someone with an even worse anger problem. You'll pop off at them, and they'll shoot you.

Honestly -- You need to ask yourself if yelling at people is working for you. Does it get positive results? Do people treat you with respect? Or is it building up resentment that will come back to bite you later?  

Answer 8

maybe you can just let it go. its gonna be hard at first but you'll get the hang of it. by the way, im 14 about to be 15.

Answer 9

instead of talking, strangle them.

:)