What should i do i have falling in love with guy i meet but i have a boyfrind should i stay or leave

Question

ok i have never been a person to do this but i have i was on line one night and meet this guy on line and we have been talking for 6 months but i have a boyfriend that i have been wih for 8 years and we have two kids togther things with him have been going down hill for 2 years i stay for the kids but i have feelings for this other guy and dont know what to do i dont want my kids to have to see there dad only on the weekends but i am not happy with him

Answer 1

wow do yo love your baby's father as much as you like this guy have you met in real life? I think you should do what your heart tells you to do I mean I'm kinda in that situation but i havent met anyone yet. I think you should really get to know the guy and see whats happens from there. Good Luck!

Answer 2

you answered your own question.  You stay only for the kids? that is the WRONG reason to stay. Its obvious you want to be with the other man and you are just looking for someone to justify your switch. Go with your heart, you only live once. why would you want to remain unhappy and forever ask yourself "what if?"

Answer 3

If your not happy with your current relationship then leave, It wont benefit your kids if you stay in the longrun. Because eventually the relationship will crumble and they will have to deal with yous two breaking up anyways. If its going to happen the earlier the better for their sakes. It will always be hard and very upsetting whenever you split but you cant hold onto something if your not happy init. People will end up even more hurt than they would if you just waslked away as soon as you felt unhappy.

You can arrange For the kids to still see their dad.

Good luck with whatever you do, i hope it works out for you x x