What should i do i need help with this bad situation

Question

ok now look my mom call me fast and she doesn't even let me hang out with people so i told her if she want me to be fast I'm going to so i told her that I'm going to get pregnant to show her how fast i can be but the problem is I'm only 13 so what should i do and if i do what would happen???

Answer 1

You should not have a baby until you understand how important it is to care for and love a child while it is growing up, even when it talks back to you.

The only way you could have a decent life with a baby is if you had a very adult husband and that is illegal, unfortunately.

Answer 2

i dont get it

Answer 3

DONT GET PREGNANT your mom just sees things the way they where when she was a kid dont worry ab it she would actually know how to day is

Answer 4

your gonna "ruin" your life, to get even with your mother ???

     That truly would be immature and a mistake "you" would pay for 18 yrs ??  

     Only to find out, it hurt you more than anyone else??

     Get a grip on reality, girl !!!

      Don't know many teenage girls, who got along or saw "eye to eye" with their moms, including myself.

      And that is the way it is suppose to be, when you start to think independently and forming your own opinions. But don't go doing dumb things that will make mess your life up and maybe keep you there even longer than you may plan.

      I can tell you for fact, that she did not mean what she said, she did so for a lot of other reasons than truth.

      Mothers often have problems handling it when their kids start growing up. They worry that some "twisted freak" takes the way you dress the wrong way, and plz don't bash her till you know where she's coming from.

       A mother who has been molested, raped, etc, or even if it has happened to a sibling, lives in holy terror for their girls.

       Nor do they ever, mention it, until their kids are adults, if they ever do, because they often hold an unreasonable guilt. So don't be so fast to judge her.

       Try a more reasonable way to get around her, "you'll catch more flies with honey, than with vineger".

        There's a book out there called, "my mother, myself". That's helped millions of teens understand and deal with, the problems you haven't even experienced yet. It will set up up for dealing with your mom for life.

       Beat's the he*l out of fighting and misery !!!

Answer 5

you need to sit down and discuss this with your mother, ask her why she thinks that your fast? maybe there is something there that you don't see and you can change.