What should i do if I love someone far away?

Question

There is this girl I met on y!a last year, we have been talking up until now. At the beginning I did not like the answers and questions she gives but as we talk, I sort of changed her. Her questions all relate so I know she isn't some 40 year old pedo. Also she sent me some pics of herself, I sent some as well. I'm 18 and she is 21.

She says she loves me too and wishes I was close by to her. We live in the same state but in separate cities. I wonder if these emotions are bad or good. She is different from any girl I meet at school and life.

Answer 1

Awww.  I'm sorry you two haven't been able to meet yet.  Do try, for I really think it is impossible to actually love someone before then.

I'm sure you two have deep feelings for each other, but I would be cautious, not about physical safety, but about emotional investment until you can meet, spend time together, and see what evolves.

Keep in mind that it is much better to grow into love than to fall into love.