What should i do if my daughter (12) is looking at p**n on the internet???

Question

i really dont want to embarrass her. what should i do???????

Answer 1

Umm bugger whether you're embarrassing her or not, for goodness sake protecting your daughter should come first. It's simple take the d**n computer away from her, don't let her on the net. Your the parent, so parent your child and let her know it's extremely wrong.

Answer 2

talk to her on private at this age kid's are curious , let her know that it's something that she is not ready to see yet, lets face it we all have seen p**n... its was just a matter of time,, any how talk to her before she start experimenting,,,,, masturbation, s*x, and other stuff, lets face it kids today are growing up at a faster rate then before... its time for that talk

Answer 3

no...you need to embarrass her...because she can become addicted

i kno this because i saw p**n when i was very young...and it made me wanna keep looking at it

until my mom found out and whooped my butt

havent looked at it since...

Answer 4

little girls can be very spiteful (as im sure you already know at this point)

if you reprimand her or even shed any negative light on this subject, then guess what?

she's going to remember that its wrong and it bothers you, and she might irrationally try to use it against you.  her views on s*x and pornography will be skewed and, as i would imagine, the above would be a common route for a p**n star.

i think the best thing you could do is catch her looking at it, as opposed to bringing it up with her awkwardly and suddenly.  If you catch her, the embarrassment of just being caught doing it might be enough, you probably wont even have to show that you condone or condemn it.  

theres nothing wrong with curiosity, and theres nothing wrong with p**n (for the most part).  BUT keep an eye out, try to catch her doing it, and if it continues to persist past that point, id suggest starting "the talk" right after you catch her in the act

that way, she'll know that she brought the talk on herself

little girls are a very delicate thing

and unfortunately, its really easy to FLJCK up

Answer 5

i Was 10 when i was looking at p**n.. i got my butt spanked but she is still curious so do the parental block on the computer.. search parental block programs on google... dont worry! but dont metion it to her so just put the block on and if she aasks syou be like oh i dont know?

Answer 6

Don't confront her and put parental controls into effect. This is very sensitive.

Answer 7

parental locks on the computer, internet. talk to her about what your views are on p**n.

Answer 8

how do u no shes looking at p**n .. shes curious well u need to teach her what s*x is but im guessing u dont so she looks it at the internet awnser mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...

Answer 9

LOCK DOWN THE WEB SITES WITH THAT TRASH ON IT!Put a lock on your your computer, it will ask you if your want parent control, and you just say or click yes, then you will be ask to put in (YOUR PASSWORD), after you do that, SHE CAN NOT GO TO THOSE WEB SITES! W/O your password! Oh, mam, she'll bring it up I'm sure, about the 2nd,or 3rd time, she tries to access those sites, and the computer WILL NOT GO TO THOSE SITES!And, may I ask why you don't want to embarrass her? Maybe, mam if you did just a little, she might not want to go to those sites anymore! If she wants to learn about s*x, give the books from the WIC offices, or Your doctor's office, that she will learn, but with the right literature!If she asks you why you got this material for her, tell her" if you want to know about s*x,(even though you're too young) here is all the material you need, the internet is off limits!

Answer 10

It is perfectly natural for children to be curious about s*x and to be interested in things like this.  Sit down and talk to her, don't yell, don't tell her its wrong, Just say hey I saw that you visited some adult sites, is there something you want to ask or talk about? Answer her questions as honestly as you can.  We accidentally left an adult entertainment video in the vcr one day and my 8 year old, sat down to watch a movie, and wanted to know what was on that movie, and she really wanted to watch it, because she had never seen it before.  I calmly explained that one day when she was older like 18 she could watch that movie if she chose too because she would be old enough, but right now she was a little girl and it was for adults not children.  She said Is there kissing on there?  I said yes, she said that's gross i don't like it when they kiss each other.  i said I know aren't you glad you aren't gonna watch that until you are older?

Answer 11

You need to talk to her asap and explain that p**n is NOT s*x. If she is forming opinions about what s*x is and is not and what she is expected to act like from pornography--I couldn't think of anything more horrifying.

Kids are naturally curious about s*x. But p**n can't teach them about that. In fact, if you let them use p**n to learn about s*x, you are harming them.

What does p**n have to do with having a healthy, stable, and satisfying relationship--NOTHING.

It teaches the opposite. Teach them what is appropriate and healthy. Teach them that p**n is harmful and ultimately, they will be happier and healthier.

Answer 12

take the computer away from her.

Answer 13

idk take her privileges away !

Answer 14

Put a user password on your comp. Let her know the only time she can use the comp is when your in the room.

Answer 15

youve got to nip this in the bud now ,i would put her over my knee pull her knickers down and spank her til she cried and have the computer on and while your spanking her say everytime i catch you watching this i will spank you ibet she wont do it again

Answer 16

I wouldn't say anything-  she is just curious....however I would look into getting a content blocker that will only allow certain sites

...http://www.webwatchernow.com/Monitoring-...

Answer 17

She's just curious.  Have you had THE talk with her?

Answer 18

you can install NetDog p**n Filter : http://www.netdogsoft.com on the computer, it blocks all p**n quitely and automatically when anyone's on the computer.

Answer 19

Embarrass the h*ll out of her! Talk to her and tell her what's up. If that doesn't help, toss the computer out the window. Morality is hard you need to draw the line in the sand now!

Answer 20

make sure you have told her the good the bad and the ugly about s*x

Answer 21

You need to sit down and talk with her.  Embarrassment is a cop out, and I'm betting some of it is actually your embarrassment also.

You just have to bite the bullet, sit her down, and start the conversation.

Some things in life just don't have an easy button.

Good Luck. :)

Answer 22

You can get some blocker for your computer, and you can sit her down and talk to her. We did with our son, and he was older than 12.  This is not healthy. Some may say she is just being curious. However being that curious could lead to her doing things that you would not approve of. It is better to "embarrass" her bit now, then not say anything and she could get into worse trouble later. Need I say more?

Answer 23

Get some p**n blockers on the computer.

Or just don't let her on the computer at all.

Jesus Christ, man.

Don't let her go the way of the s**t.

Answer 24

That's so young to look at p**n. I'm a guy and I was 13 when I started & I kinda regret it cus I kept looking at it for years afterwards.

If you are scared of her response then I question your parenting skills.

Answer 25

confront her and take away the computer.