What should i do!!! im pregnant and dont know how to tell my parents!!

Question

me and my boy friend just to discover that im pregnant!!and im only 14!!

and i dont know how to tell my parents!!!

what should i do!!

you ppl out there are my last resort!!

PLEASE HELP ME!!

pleas

Answer 1

you are so irresponsible why are you having s*x you are only 14 i am 13 on the other hand and i am very responsible even though i do that kind of stuff i do safely

Answer 2

Okay. Im fifteen. & i understand what its like. my parents are so harsh. well how old is your boyfriend? dont have an abortion. either keep the baby, or give it to a good home. :]

it deserves a chance at life. okay, but now how to tell your parents. well if you have a close adult  that you can talk to, to come with you to help tell them. you could write a letter. or you could call them. but there is no easy way to tell them. i know how hard it must be. i have very strict parents who would kill me. and my boyfriend. but sit down with them like an adult, they will be mad at first but you gotta tell them at some point. say mom dad i know your gonna be very dissappointed, please dont interupt me i want to explain everything without yall jumpin in. just please let me talk. and i know that i didnt plan on this happening. but i plan on do everything i can. and i was big girl enough to do this so i think i can be big girl enough to tell you guys to your face and big girl enough to handle this like an adult. im pregnant. be like i know your gonna be sad. and angry. but its just as big as a suprise to me as it is to you. and be like age doesnt determine how good of a mom i will be. but i will try my damnest to be a great mother. i can finish school homeschooling. or doing it on the internet. o and they cant force you to give up your baby or have an abortion. dont let them trick you.

Answer 3

you need to tell your parents. they will find out sooner or later so you may as well tell them (unless you run and hide - which is not an option).  you need their help (advice, finances, emotional support) to ensure your life and the baby is not at risk.  

they may get cranky at first but there will get it over it.  

don't consider abortion before you speak to your parents.  you never know, they may be very supportive.

Answer 4

ok, now im tired of it. SHUT UP ABOUT THIS PREGNANT STUFFF!!!!!! STOP ASKING QUESTIONS ABOUT IT. IT'S ANNOYING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

Answer 5

I know the best thing for you is to get support from people who have gon through the same. There are TONS of stories on the site below; perhaps some of them are examples of ways to tell your parents. Check it out -- sending you hugs and prayers!

http://standupgirl.com/web/index.php

Answer 6

I agree with Juje. OWNED!!!! s***w that. PWNED!!!!! Help yourself. You made the dicision you find the solution. HAVE FUN WITH YOUR NEW LIFE!!!

Answer 7

just tell them and say

be happy being a grandma and grandad!

Answer 8

I guess it all depends on how your family is.  I think you should tell them soon because you and your baby need prenatal care.  Whatever one you feel closer to sit them down and say I know I am very young and I know I messed up but I am pregnant.  Trust me you being so young I am sure they are gonna hit the roof, cry, be disappointed but trust me it will all pass.  You will just have to give them time to deal with this as well.  Parents react to this very hard at first but then they get used to it and it will all work out.  I wish you the best.

Answer 9

Hi, I wasn't going comment as ive never been in that situation, but then  i read that someone told you to abort and i felt it necessary to write to you.  please don't t do anything stupid or silly like that until you have spoken with your parents at least told them.  i cant comment on what they would do or what they would be like, but i thought that maybe it would be best to talk to someone like a parent outside of the family that you trust and approach your parents with that person, and your boyfriend if you like.  if you do decide abortion then that should be a decision that you and your parents and your boyfriend make together, but please look at all your options and all consequences of your actions.  i wish you the best of luck and wish you to please tell someone soon so that decisions can be made.  

best of luck :) god give you strenght  my friend.

Answer 10

You have to tell them, because they are the people that will help no matter what. Sure they will loose some respect and trust for you, but they  will help. Just remember to apologize and know that they raised you better than what you did.

P.S. your parents will still love you deeply.good luck

Answer 11

Maybe find an adult you trust, and tell them, asking that person to help you tell your parents.  Its always good to have someone there with you for support.  I am sorry you are feeling so anxious, that must be really rough.  

Answer 12

theyre ur parents! theyve raised u ur whole life! don't u think they've established the part where u can trust them with ANYTHING!!!!!

Answer 13

Get an abortion and never tell them. If your doctor refuses, just tell him you'll use a rusty coat hanger and bleed to death in an alleyway.

Answer 14

Just tell them straight out.  You are not even old enough to drive a car and are probably not even in high school yet, but you are going to bring a child into this world.  Lovely.  Tell them, and soon, you need pre-natal care immediately and due to your age, you also will likely need a high-risk obstetrician.

Answer 15

well u need to talk with them sooner or later becuz your gonna need to learn to cope with the embarrasment at skool and how hard it will b to take care of it.

Answer 16

Sit them down with your boyfriend present and tell them straight out, they deserve to know. Just make sure your boyfriend is there with you for support and to make sure you don't back down.  

Answer 17

if i was your parents i would be very concerned as you are only 14 i have nothing against young parents as i was 16 when i first got pregnant but at 14 you cannot recieve any income at all so how do you think you are going to look after a baby with no money.dont expect your parents to help you it was your mistake not theirs

Answer 18

just tell them. they will be mad but they will get over it and help you through it.

Answer 19

too young for s*x u should of used protection

Answer 20

OWNED!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 21

Sit down with your mom or stepmom, say "Mom, i have something to tell you. i think you should sit down" and then just tell her.  You need your parents to support you during this time.  This is going to be a tough road no matter what you do, and you will want your parents along for the ride to give you the love, support, and information you need.  Good luck to you, your family, your bf, and your baby!

Answer 22

you made an adult choice. so act like one and tell your parents. and they are probably going to be really angry because their 14 year old daughter is out having s*x and she got pregnant. way to go. your not old enough to have a child, drive a car, or get a job. yeah your life is going great.

Answer 23

Go ahead and tell your parents.

It will just give them the opportunity to realize that they have failed as parents. At 14 you should not even have the chance to be having s*x.

So, unless it's an immaculate conception, it's their fault as much as yours.

Also, if you don't tell them, how will you explain the baby that will eventually come along? Depending on where you live, you may or may not need their consent for an abortion or adoption. In any case, they'll probably notice you having to go to the hospital.

Answer 24

your 14 and your pregnant you are still a child......................... and you are going to bring a baby in this world...................................... you are very fast you should have waited till you got you career...... Your parents would be very shocked......omg........................... EM hope your boyfriend is satisfied.

Answer 25

they will get over it  

Answer 26

Go to your local house of Worship, The person in charge will help you, Do not wait, In early stages you need Medical Advice, Your Parents will love you and will be a big help. GOD BLESS YOU