What should i do.... is this cheating??

Question

My partner has been going on alot of dating sites and webcam sites and talking to loads of other woman, i don't know what has been said.

he has done this in the past and it is really affecting my confidence and my trust with him.

I have asked him about it before and he went mad at me saying its all fake and its only online and that its nots like hes gone out and cheated on me!! what do i do??

Answer 1

Stepping outside the marriage, wether it's emotional or physical, is cheating.

What do you do? Confront him and explain how you feel. If he doesn't want to stop then you need to reconsider your future. Do you want to spend the rest of your life like this? Being disrespected and unhappy? Figure your answers to those questions and that may help you.

Good Luck

Answer 2

he's just lookin and wishin.  look and wish with him...minus the chat.  you cant really ask him not to go there...just go with and maybe you'll find something new  TOGETHER.  

Answer 3

tell him how you feel. if he respects and love you  then he will stop otherwise follow your thoughts.  good luck. if you feel it is the computer or you and he does not stop then let him have the computer and get you a real guy.

Answer 4

This isn't going to work - he's good enough as cheating. If he wasn't, he would have no need to look or talk to other women on the internet.  

Answer 5

Yes it is a form of cheating ! It may not be physical yet, but it will. The point that he is wasting time, disrespecting you with the web cam sites, is saying that he is looking for other options. Give him an ultimatum. Donot tolerate it!!  Hide the mouse if you have to, no way should he manipulate the situation by saying it is fake. Later he could do something, he cannot take back. Take back control in your life, and say I deserve better treatment, and am going to get respect whether I am with you or not......  

Answer 6

Hi, He may say its only the internet and its fake but in sounds like he's looking for somthing and its not recipies. I wonder how ape he would go if u dissconected the internet.

U need to sit him down get angry with him let him know just how much this type of thing upsets u and tell him to sort his s**+* out or get out.

Dont loose ur confidence.

Answer 7

You poor thing I am not surprised that it is affecting your confidence it would mine as well...

He should stop that is not fair to you no matter how you look at it.

Good luck

Answer 8

it has to do with his intentions, when your on a dating sight then your looking for someone else, your not happy or focused on your relationship,on line relationships are a place to meet people and find new relationships.u confront it, he has to stop it or your relationship is doomed.

Answer 9

My husband looks up p**n on the net. I don't mind, however if he was using the webcam to chat to girls, then I'd be mad

Answer 10

No matter what he tries to tell you. it is cheating.