What should i do...is this right?

Question

me and my ex girlfriend broke up. we loved each other but she broke up with me because of doubts. i still love her and she says she loves me but isnt 'in love with me'. she says she needs time...i dunno if it means time to maybe move on, time to think more i dunno really.

so basically im giving her time but im moving on as well. she promised she woudl call me when she ready for whatever. im moving on but also keeping her in my heart just incase she realizes what shes doing and comes back. is this good to do or should i just full on move on?

Answer 1

sounds hard. .

but its gonna be harder not to fully move on because if you dwell in what-ifs, you wont have peace of mind. are you still in love with her? loving someone is different from being in love with them. so im guessing that she may not be able to handle the fact that she does love you but is no longer in love with you. she may want to experience both things in a relationship. but you cant be in love with someone forever. romance will always fade away. . . i think you can love her whether or not your attraction to her has faded away. . you are a great guy but i guess you deserve some peace in your mind and in your heart. .  you trying to move on is a positive sign that you will be able to break away from all of this. . . so go take some time off. . ^^  

Answer 2

Im no love expert.. But when a girl says this, she usually means she wants to break up with you and that there is another guy involved and is trying to decide between you and the other guy. I really suggest that you forget bout her completly and move on.. Im positive you can do so much better.

Answer 3

dude she broke up with you in a crappy way. go egg her house and move on