What should i do my son taught my mother how to roll a joint and clean a bowl this weekend he is 5 !?!?!?!?

Question

i dont have the money to take her to court ive called children services had doctors and school councelers call children and youth she doesnt live with him if i call the police she will make up some bullshit and say i abuse him or threatened her i have a new child due in two weeks and dont feel like having to go through the nonsense what do i do against such a manipulative evil woman who will do anything to keep her child with her no matter how horrible she is

oh and she is a stripper who smokes weed all day long and hasnt had a job in years a little help would be appreciated

Answer 1

Tell her to sit down all day or make her sleepy or ocupy her.

Answer 2

tell your son to stop making gramas dubbies!

Answer 3

so you mean your mother taught your son to roll a joint and clean a bowl not the other way around.

Answer 4

the best you can do is report her...they will contact the school and have the teachers opinions

Answer 5

Your mom is a stripper?

Answer 6

Sorry but your question is a bit confusing so are you the father and the mother has taught your son who has now shown your mother?

This is even confusing me now typing it?

Answer 7

WOW your 5 year old taught his grandma all that!!

you must be a good teacher!!

Answer 8

Just cut off all contact with her when it comes to your children!

Answer 9

First of where are your morals right away you should have figured out that there would be problems with him going over there because of that.

Second, oh my gosh documentation of the events and informing the child protective services could help.

You don't want to loose your children to a crazy women and you getting the blame for all of it.

Answer 10

your son is awesome.

Answer 11

your son taught his gram to roll and clean? that sounds really fake.... a five year old can be pressured into saying something.. especially by parents that dont like each other... so it is quite possible he heard you talking trash about his mom, and he repeated it to his gram. Ive seen a dad tell their 4 year old to call his mom a w***e... the kid doesnt know so he does it. You need to parent your children correctly... and dont always blame your ex... blaming your ex makes it all the more your fault.

Answer 12

WOW!! That's messed up!! Take her a** to court!

Answer 13

when she goes to her stripping job, burn down her trailer home

Answer 14

I'm not following your question...   your son taught your mom how to roll a joint??

Answer 15

d**n i would have done more than don't let your kids go back to your moms at all unless you want them taken away if they find out what she is doing with him in her house protect your little ones at all cost even if that means you lose you mom shes not good for your kids if she is doing DRUGS

Answer 16

umm...im a lil confusd....ur soj taught ur mom or the other way around....a lil clarificarion...please....srry if it comes off the wrong way

Answer 17

DAYUM!

Answer 18

Your 5 year old taught your mom how to roll a joint...that's pretty impressive. I think you worded that wrong. Don't take your son to his grandma's house anymore, and you won't have that problem.

Answer 19

re-read your question....you said your SON taught your MOTHER....

simple answer is don't let your son see her.She has no right to the child legally.Only you and the father do.If she puts up a fight she will lose.

Answer 20

Well, in order to understand what you were trying to ask in this question, I had to re-read your other question because this question is worded badly.

But, from what I understand, your son's mother (your ex-wife) taught your son how to roll a joint and in return he taught your mother (his grandmother) how.

You should call the police and tell them what you think is going on and what happened with your son, and they will call Social Services and everyone will go to your ex-wife's house. They will search her house and arrest her if any of your accusations are true.

Answer 21

ok i'm confused which one are u?? the mother or What..

Answer 22

thats messed up and should not be happening. you need to go tot the police and you dont need money for that either just walk in.

Answer 23

First, I don't think it's your son who taught her how to roll a joint, I think she just told you that, so she can blame it on him.

Second, the more YOU aggressively stay involved with your son, the safer he will be.  He needs YOU, not DFACS.  Don't wait on the government to take care of you...they NEVER have, and they NEVER will.  Stop trying to get everyone else  to do their job, and just do YOUR job!  Be his dad all the time, every day, and I mean BE THERE with him!

Third...for your son, and for you...change who you hang out with!  You knew she was a stripper and a drug user BEFORE you had kids with her.  

This all seems impossible, I know.  But you truly can change your life, and the life of your son.  Are you willing to make that committment?  You have a lot more power than you know!

Answer 24

He's going to be rolling allot of joints when he's living in a van down by the river.

Chris Farley AKA Matt Foley-motivational speaker

Answer 25

You are going to have to take her to court unless the child services will inter vein.  Next time he visits simply dont let her have him back. She can get mad and bring a cop but legally, it is a civil matter and the cop cant do jack about it if you say it is in the best interest of the child and it will have to be handled in court.

Answer 26

hide your stash better