What should i do?? need help!!?

Question

i have a friend (i also babysit her) who is 11 years old going on 21 (i'm 17). she wears outfits that she shouldn't like teeny tiny shirts that show off her tummy, lacy tank tops, wears a bra and doesn't need to, short shorts, short skirts, etc. and she's boy crazy!! so anyways we were all hanging out at the pool one day and she always says really random things. and was like, you wanna know what my goal is by the time i'm 16?? and then she says, i want to be pregnant and have a baby.i was like omg!!! why?? and then she's like, well i want to b/c babies are cute&fun!! then i said, you would not want to be pregnant that young, it's harder than you think!! and then she says and by the time i'm 18, i want to be married and moved out. my mom wouldn't be able to tell me what to do because i'll be an adult!! then she tells us about this guy she has a HUGE crush on!!

Answer 1

Ok first of all you mean11 going on 12 not 21! and if I were you i would one tell her parents. two talk to her about what big mistake she is makeing and explain mabey even do some research and talk to her!!!

Answer 2

Oh noooo!!!

You should tell her the bad things about being pregnant that young and then let her decide by yourself.

You do your best, but she decides what she decides because it's her business, just do your best in telling her the consequences.

EDIT:

That's SO sad!!! Wow....

But yeaaaa you can't do MUCH. tell her the facts and then it's up to her to make whatever decision she wants to make.

Answer 3

tell her that thats not rite..... .

Answer 4

nxt time u babysit her show her one of them teen pregnancy videos that show how hard their life is and stuff.

Answer 5

deff tell her mom. something is a bit out-of-wack. I remember when I was 11 i didnt think about that stuff.

Answer 6

at school ask the health teachers if you can borrow a video about teen pregnancy and how bad it is

Answer 7

tell her mom!! Before its to late. If she ends up pregs you're gonna wish you had told her. I know it sucks and you don't wanna snitch, but you're really doing her a favor.

Answer 8

LOL katie michalek, this issue is just so funny

funny, that ud get it

well anywayz, i think u should just

like respect the fact that she tells u and not anyone else

and then slowly tell why these things are rong,

cept the l***o part, thats her own decision

P.S. i better get the best answer for this

Answer 9

Oh dear. This is really quite scary isn't it?

Do you not think that you could just chat to her mum about the way she lets her dress. Maybe you could say that you have seen guys looking at her or something? Her mother is obviously a bit of a fool to let her 11 year old wear clothes like that. Anyway, if you bring it up like that you won't get the kid into trouble because it will just seem like you are concerned because of what you have witnessed...

That's all I can suggest. Sorry.

Answer 10

gotta love the media. you should definitely tell her mom

Answer 11

teens face the curiosity stage.  let her feel that friends like you are around.  and let her realize how beutiful the life is to be ruined by soneone she thought she loves.  talk to her mom about the matter.  mom knows best and her mom is in authority to give advise to her child.  prayers help a lot. pray for your friend.  God bless

Answer 12

you should really talk to her parents about this. that's just, horrible.

Answer 13

thats not right for her age you should tell her out straight  what you think and that she should wait a longer time

Answer 14

well...basically..teach her what her mom can't...or hasn't

Answer 15

uhhmmm you should tell her about experiences that you've seen or had.

and thar you can't be in love with someone when your 11.

Also tell her that this will all ruin her life.

Answer 16

Keep being a good friend and setting a high standard by being pure. It's very hard to stop someone with that mindset.

Answer 17

huh?

Answer 18

I fell in love for the 1st time at age 11.  Looking back, (I am 26 now) I can see that it was indeed love.  Some adolescents have the capacity to be in love, so if she has a "huge crush" on someone, that's completely normal and nothing to worry about.  As far as her S****y outfits, you may want to mention that people have a hard time taking someone who dresses like that seriously and she's actually not really respectable while wearing that stuff.  Also, the plans of being married and pregnant are just plans of an 11 year-old girl.  They will most likely change as she matures.  She just really wants to be a woman.  Maybe you guys can go do something that adults do for fun like go to a day spa or get manicures.  Tell her folks and maybe they'll treat you two to a little pamper session.

Answer 19

Tell her mother, and maybe find some program that  would show her  how much it would suck to be  pregnant at 16.

That girl is messed up!

Answer 20

tell her mother that is way wrong

Answer 21

tell her what she is becoming tell her about the dieseses out here and she really doesnt want them.

Answer 22

Wow..... First tell her that she's absolutely out of her mind. Then tell her that if she gets pregnant at sixteen she won't be able to have fun with all the boys she likes she'll be stuck at home, broke, and left without an education. You might wanna consider showing her some life stories of teen moms and how much they had to give up because of there mistakes.

Answer 23

TELL HER MOM.

and is she doesnt stop SMACK SOME SENSE into that wanna be grown not even a teenage brat..=|