What should i do now

Question

What should i do now

I fond it really hard to be me, when it comes to being with other people. find it very hard to express myself clearly and begin to 'dry up'.

I'm quite shy and very modest and dont really like to talk about myself at all, always preferring to talk about the other person rather than about my day, job, ideas. I suppose this make it seems that i've got something to hide or are mysterious. The attention on me is dislikable. I would prefer it people wouldn't notice me at all, to be invisible. I have alot to offer, but some reason i like to hide away and amd very secretive about myself

Answer 1

the will is within you.  the power is within you.  u need willpower to change.  realizing this deficiency is a good first step.  now the next, start talking to yourself in the mirror at home. with a loud clear voice.  then practice it with a family member or close friend who is willing to help.  then increase numbers to 3, 4,5 and see how it goes.

u can also go to a public speaking school but its a waste of $$ as they will tell u the same thing.  

so pl try your best

goodluck