What should i do? (please help)?

Question

Im starting highschool..i dont have many friends in my classes..But i do have ALL my enemys on my bus and bus stop..okay i have Drivers Ed and a test is coming up and i got to get 100%. and i have 3 assignments for Spanish and homework from Algebra..and i have many chores at home... life is getting stressful.. ii came home today in tears.. My enemys usually just take it to far, Today one of them was getting off the bus and glarin at me and one of them called me a fat *****. I didnt know this kid. im being hurt for things i didnt do. this has gone on since 7th grade! It makes me jus so mad cuz i cant do anything about it and its just not fair.. no one cares it hurts me so much.And yes im average size i aint skinny :) I dont have a prob with that but when im reminded everyday.. I tryd to ask my mom to get me a CD player so i can turn it on FULL BLAST the whole bus ride.. what should i do..

Answer 1

well, first off.. everyone going into high school doesnt have many friend in their classes, but don't even worry about it! Youll make friends fast.. because if you thin about it.. a lot of the other kids won't know a lot of ppl either right, so eventually you will be maing friends in no time.. and even if in some classes you find you're not making friends then don't even worry about it, because youre only in one class for about an hour, so no biggie right! Lunch time is also a good time to meet new ppl..  and as far as the stupid enemies go..ppl can be SO cruel.. and promise yourself that you will NOT believe or buy in to anything that theyre saying.. because weve all been there and gone thru that and you cant let what theyre saying get to you.. because tats what their strategy is.. to let wat theyre saying affect you.. so even if it does, cause i know it will get to you, ust dont let it show.. theyre just stupid kids after all who havent grown up.. i think the CD player would be a great idea!  Youre able to stand up for yourself too.. just tell them how you feel.. and then after that completely just block them out.. and good luck!!! dont let stuff like that get to you

Answer 2

You need someone like me over there. I will tell you this. wake up and look in the mirror and smile. The bi ya t ches start messing with you and just ignore it smile wide in your mind. As long as they dont get physical just ignore it. I would have a hard time and go full boogie down on their a s s es, but that would be promoting violence and I am not going to do that. go to school and do well. This is the best revenge ever.  

Answer 3

i know this is kind of a weird example but it does make sense..

i like to bother my dog a lot. when he's sleeping i'll rock him back and forth to p**s him off. when he reacts (growling, trying to bite me, making doggy noises) i love it. in fact that's the reason why i do it.

but sometimes he won't bother and put his head back down and pretend, or try to sleep. then there's no point in bothering him anymore- it's boring and pointless. so i stop and come back later in hopes that he'll react this time.

i'm sure you get my point. try it. and persist. i won't cure it 100% the first time. but eventually they'll get bored. like i do. haha.