What should i do please help ?

Question

me and my ex split 2 months ago she said she wanted to be friends we didnt speak 4 about 2 weeks then she called me up 1 nite askin 4 a lift home from her nite out i piked her up on the way home we started to kiss and we had s*x then she didnt txt me 4 another few weeks and now shes txting me again we met up the other day we got on really well just like wen we wer first together we waz having a cuddle and asked her if there was any chance of us getting bk together she said she doesnt know probably not but she wait and see wot happens were goin to meet up again next week .i think she is confused and wants me back but is scared it mite go wrong again how can i convince her plz help

12 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.

Answer 1

You are making it waaay too easy for her.  Have you ever heard of the term "booty call"? I hate to say that she is being a bit selfish, but it doesn't seem like she is taking your feelings in to consideration.  She only wants you when "she" wants you.  I think she may still like you, but it seems like you are more of a convenience to her and you are a "safe" thing for her because she is use to you.  I agree with the person who first answered your query.  If you make yourself a little more inaccessible, she will then learn to appreciate you more when you do finally give her the opportunity to be around you and also, maybe not offer to get back with her so easily.  If she wants it, let her do the asking this time.  Good luck!

Answer 2

if you ignore her she will chase after you