What should i do.....please help?

Question

hi...I have a friend. We both are chilhood friends and have also fought with each other many times. but still we both believe we r best friends. now what is happening is that we both know that we r best friends but r not ready to accept it. we both have a close friends. we both say that they r our best friends and we both r not. i know that both of us r simply trying to make each other jealous by doing that. but we both criticize that so called best friends in front of each other. today the whole world sees we both as best friends....but just we both r not ready to accept it even though we know we r. we both just try to make each other jealous. is this ego? i dont think this is the problem. pls help us both out of this. please save our frindship.

Answer 1

Tricky. I've never heard something like that. Try and be the sensible one and accept it first. This is hard but in the end - you feel so happy that you took the risk of doing it. Tell her that you believe that you and her are best friends because you have stuck by each-other. Say 'Just by saying we're not - makes it harder because true friends don't critizize each-other'. It's ok to have other best friends as this helps because if you have a break-up then at least you have someone to comfort you. But that doesn't stop the reason why you shouldn't beome friends. Or you could just go off and play with your other friends for a while and if you feel alright then you could come back and try and make a fresh start with her. I hope this has helped! Good Luck!

Answer 2

dont speak words that make u feel jealous,you may hurt each other and the beautiful bond of friendship might develop a crack.try to be more careful in your words.be loving show love talk abt things that  would help u make your bond stronger