What should i do ? pls help me..?

Question

A few days ago.. my hubby and i hand a misunderstanding, and it got out of hand, well we were able to fix it, but afterwards we were treating each other coldly.. now i dont know what to think, he hasnt come home for 2 nights now.. and im left with my 3 kids.. the youngest is 2 months old.. hes not texting or calling me.. i dont know what to do anymore..

Hes changed a lot.. from sweet to super mean..

Answer 1

Well I don't know what the disagreement was about so that makes it difficult to answer.  You should try to talk to him.  Tell him how you are feeling OR atleast to to get him to come home so you can mend things then see if he returns to his old self.  Disagreements are funny that way.  Maybe you two should try a date night with out the kids to see if you can work it out.  Good luck.

Answer 2

He isnt there for your kids even though you two are having problems. Sounds to me like he needs to grow up

Answer 3

It doesn't sound "fixed" to me.  I would tell him to get home and face his responsibilities with you and the family.  If he doesn't, I would change the locks and get a restraining order against him.  You don't need this.  If you are going to end up being a single parent, might as well start sooner rather than later.  If he has changed as much as you say, there's no telling what he may do to your or one of the kids.  Do you really want to take the chance and "wait to see" if something happens??  I think at a bare minimum, you need serious marriage counseling.  He is acting like a child and being irresponsible, you have 4 children.

Answer 4

good question there has to be one guidance or waht i call the leader in the familly 35% males 65% females i guess ur in 65% , try to reason with him, when he does get home don't ask him where he's been just tell him you were worried & let him know how much u love him, that may lead to s*x or just a quick ********, but ur gona have to let him know you care, ( good luck, i hope u guys work it out)

Answer 5

Maybe it depends on what the misunderstanding is. If it was something simple, maybe he was looking for some reason to leave already. Men are big babies sometimes and you may just have to remind him how much you love him and tell him you are sorry about the misunderstanding. Maybe give him some s*x when he gets home that usually makes most men happy. :)

Answer 6

well do go sendin flower and chocolate you might want to call his mom or dad ask them to call him and have him call you. then if that doesn't work call his network provider they can probably track his phone. when he comes home don't talk to him when your kids are gone or send them to your moms so you can talk Alone. so your kids dont ask ''r u gonna get a dorvice''  

Answer 7

If he can be away from you and his kids like that you probably dont need him around anyway. Thats your call of course, im just saying...

Answer 8

Send him a text asking him to just call or text and let you know he is unharmed.  It sounds like you didn't work things out as well as you thought.  He is being irresponsible to leave you and the children without a word no matter how angry he might be right now.  

When he returns home discuss counseling.  Try your local department of mental health.  They work on a sliding fee scale.  Your marriage needs counseling.

Answer 9

Maybe you should call the police and file a missing person's report on him. If it is not usual for him to stay away, something could have happened.

Stop thinking of yourself and find him before you jump to conclusions that he is being mean.