What should i do? ? ?????

Question

im 18 and my bf recently turned 27, we have been together for close to a year now and a few months ago i found out i am pregnant.... i told my bf strait away and he said i have to have an abortion . i dont want one but he says were too young and we dont have the money i reeeeli dont want the abortion i am almost 5 months gone now ansd had my first ultrsound last week my baby kicks and moves inside my stomach all the time, ive grown quite fond of whatevers in there and i dont want to get rid of it. how do i tell my bf i dont want the abortion

Answer 1

NO ABORTION!! bad idea!

There are always other options.

Adoption is a good one.

There are some people out there dieing for a family but are unable to have children. Your child could grow up and have a good life with another family and you could even meet them when they are old enough if its right for both of you.

or

You could just tell your bf to shove it.What a horrible thing to say. "honey were having a baby" "get an abortion" .

You can do it buy yourself.

s***w him!

Answer 2

adoption

Answer 3

I'm no doctor but i'm pretty sure its too late to have an abortion. I thought that you couldn't be any further than 3 months. Tell him that you want to have this baby. Also having abortions can make people depressed. Have you considered adopting it out?

Answer 4

Your bf is sick..He has the guts to make love to you but have no balls to take responsibilities for being the father of your baby.Shame on him besides he is too old for you.If you don't want to get abortion then don't.Go on with your life and let the baby live.You don't need your bf..

Answer 5

your kid your choice. life moves on good luck w/ the new born :D

Answer 6

God does not give us more than we can bare. A child is new life abortion should never be the choice. You have to ask yourself what kind of person he is if he can make the choice to abort an unborn child or better yet will he ever want kids?? Life doesn't get easier it gets harder and I think this is more of your decision than his although you want him to be involved in your choice but its so many women like myself who are obsessed with trying to have a child and you have the opportunity! Don't give up on it because trying to conceive again can be almost impossible so i think you need to put your foot down and if he stills says no i think you should take a leap of faith and do it on your own. God gave you strength so use it! Best of Luck and Lots of Baby Dust to you and the REST of US!

Answer 7

You don't have to tell him anything.  You get to do as you please. If he didn't want to make a kid he should have taken better care of his little wigglies.  At 27 he is not too young for much of anything.  Tell him to grow up or move on.

Answer 8

Too late to have one. If you are fond of whats growing there keep it. Yes you maybe too young to have a baby but if you have an abortion you will think about it a lot. You should be able to find foster care and still be a part of that child's life. Talk to your parents and find yourself a good counselor. Your bf should be supportive of you and any decision but you must also listen to what he has to say too. But if he starts to pressure you and yelling at you...get out. You yourself do not need that kind of attention.Pregnant or not.

Answer 9

Just tell him!  You've made up your mind, and that's all there is to it.  Abortion is off the table, and if he doesn't like it, he can leave.  The time to have had an abortion was right away, months ago, as soon as you found out you were pregnant. You've let the pregnancy go on too long to get an abortion in good conscience.  Face it, you have sat for five months doing nothing, because you want this baby.  

The worst reason in the world for a girl to get an abortion is because her boyfriend wants her to.  He is telling you that he doesn't want his own kid.  s***w him.  In that case, you get rid of the guy, not the baby!

If you give in and have an abortion now, after you've felt your growing baby moving inside of you, you will regret it immediately and for the rest of your life, and you'll grow to hate your bf, and break up with him, anyway.  Then you'll have lost everything.

After you have the baby, your bf may come around and decide that he wants to have a relationship, after all.  However, if he doesn't, that's unfortunate, but you can live with it.  You will never forgive yourself for an abortion that wasn't your idea, so for your own sanity and peace of mind, have the baby.  Then, make sure that you get on reliable birth control, so that you don't get put into the position of having to make this decision ever again.

Answer 10

its ur baby ur choice

Answer 11

KNOW YOU CAN NOT ABORT YOUR CHILD NOW ONLY ONE THING CAN BE DONE IS THAT ASK HIM TOM MARRY U OR LIVE HIM AND SEARCH FOR ANOTHER GUY WHO CAN MARY U WHITH UR CHILD OR GIVE THAT CHILD BIRTH AND GIVE TO THOSE COUPLES WHO CANNOT GIVE BIRTH TO CHILD  PLEASE DONT TRY TO KILL SUCH A SMALL BABY WHO HAS ALRADY BORN IN YOUR STOMAC

Answer 12

I say just tell him.its your choice. Just because he doesnt want one, does not mean you have to get an abortion.

If he cant accept that, then its his loss. Because you know that youve gained something that will be amazing!

and hes 27, your young, but hes not.. alot of fathers are at the range of 25-30s

so dont worry, itll be fine!

just tell him you want to keep the baby.

good luck! and congratulations!

Answer 13

There is no way around it. You have to do this yourself. Maybe you can have a friend with you when you tell him to give you support but the sooner you tell him, the better. You can also talk to him about the option of adoption. That way you can have the baby and relate to his side too, and if you get attached to the baby which is natural, he has to support you and your baby. If he's a good guy and he really loves you, he should be there for your child because in the end, its your body and its your choice to have a baby.