What should i do???????????????

Question

i love him but he doesn't love me, but he pretends he does... he doesn't want a relationship, but he knows i do, so he has asked me out.

we have been going out a while, we have had s*x,

but now it just feels like he is using me for s*x.

i still love him..but i don't trust him.

what should i do?

Answer 1

Stop feeling out of control, powerless, unattractive and unworthy and read a book called 'He's Just Not That Into You'

You'll be so glad you did

Answer 2

Do you really need us to tell you the answer?

Answer 3

Dear Advice Seeker:

Please RUN!!!  If your love, time, s*x, and energy cannot be appreicated and reciprocated, move on.  A "one-way" love never succeeds--you will be chasing that rainbow forever.  Learn to love yourself enough to know when it's time to let go.  By letting go it demonstrates strength, courage, and self worth--all things that may intimidate a man initially but gradually earns YOU a wealth of respect as the trust becomes established.

Don't tell him...show him that you are a force to be reckoned with and DATE OTHER people starting now--and when he calls and he will (booty call)--blow him off and tell him you have a REAL date.

I tell women very often, 1 of 2 things will happen--he will step up to the plate and compete with others for your attention, or like the predator he may be, he will move on.

Be smart, be safe, be sure.

Good Luck!

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Answer 4

He is using you.  Plain and simple.  He is getting what he wants from you and not having a proper full relationship.  If you don't have trust then you don't have a relationship.  Sorry but I think you know the answer yourself without asking us lot on here.

End it now before you get hurt anymore than you probably already are.

Sorry but sadly some guys are like this.

good luck

Answer 5

he is using you for s*x and i believe deep down you think he will love you because of that, wrong. he will move on when someone else suits him better, stop sleeping with him, you cannot make him love you.

Answer 6

Cut it off.

Answer 7

sounds like my 4 year relationship......even if you get that far,he's not the one please don't waste your time unless you develope a strong friendship first-----that is what matters most, and if there is no trust there is NOTHING

Answer 8

dump him

Answer 9

Leave, find someone who deserves you and your love, there'll be someone out there ready and waiting to treat you like a princess.