What should i do!!!!?

Question

I honestly dont know what t odo anymore!!!! My dad through a chair at me yesterday and then lied to my mom and said he didnt even tho me and my sis both cried. He jsut said that he threw it on the other end of the couch. He slapped me and left his handprint in a bruise on my thigh. My mom very often thinks im a horrible kid. And neither one of them except for my mom really tell me they love me or give me hugs or anything. My sister turned my straightener on and tried to put a plastic bag over it to hide the fact that it was on! And my dad once again lied and said it was on all night but it wasnt on when my mom went to work. And i was asleep all day. My mom gets up a 3 am. I got up at 11 and my sis got up around 10 but my dad still tried to lie and say that my sister got up 10 min after me! I dont know what to do anymore... My life is being destroyed!!!!!

Answer 1

mines the same honey..but we have to live with it.. my e-mail is [e-mail] ..e-mail  me if u ever need advice

Answer 2

call the cops!

Answer 3

honey, im sorry your going through that ive gone through so many bad times also. My dad is abusive and i got out of there. I never plan to go back. I live with my grandmother, im 17 years old. I want you to know that my email is [e-mail] I am more than willing to talk to you. I know how hard it is to call the police on your own parents when all you want is for them to love you. But if it gets too bad then it is what you have to do. I will pray for you, and that is something you can do too. I am not majorly religious but there has to be a power greater than ourselves whether it is god or someone else. Anyways I hope i helped. KEEP your head up. Go to school then one day you can get out of there and be happy with yourself and have a family and make sure your kids never have to go through that. Dont ever give up things will get better because you arent stuck there forever.. <3

Answer 4

that's really mean my parents are not that bad either.

i am so sorry!

do you have anyone you trust your grandmother or grandfather or friend and tell them but if you don't want to then just don't talk stay in your room and take little steps.

i am so sorry

Answer 5

you are being physically abused.  and you do not deserve this and need to do something.

you can..

1. call the police and they will surely listen to you

2. talk to an adult you trust, like a teacher or friend's parent

3. talk to a friend and yo can ask them to tell their parents if you are uncomfortable with it

4. tell your neighbor

and either way, you will probably move out of the house with your sister.  you may go to a foster home, or you might be able to move in with a friend or something.

but hang in there.  and do something soon.

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Answer 6

tell the police or someone trusted and if you did tell the police most likely you might get a fresh start

Answer 7

Sweetheart, I have seen so many young people in my hospital that didn't make it out of their situations.   Some of my friends that  I met in  the hosp[ital told me so many horror stories, and what they had done when they saw no other way out.   Thankfully, the ygot into the care system, and anre happy and ALIVE today bexcause of it.  You are in a very dangerous situation, as you have acknoweleged already.  What you need to do is pick someone you ca ntrust and go to the police with this .  The ycan protect you and prevent anyone from coming and harming you.  If ou can't do that, then you need to make a safety paln.  you need to get the numbers of a crisis lines and teen lines, and get out of the house with a bag packed for a few days of bbeing away.  If you cant  get a pack together, forget it, and get to a safe place to make your phone calls.  YOU DSEVEWRVE BETTER, and since you have had hte courage to ttell a lot of strangers here, I know you have the courage to do this.  You need to gett o safety, andtell someone in authority (cop, therapistr, nurse, doctor, etc), and let the professionals do their job and get you to safety.  Before you say anything about your little sister, as I know you want to, you have to think of YOU first.  Once you getto safety, the professionals will make sure your sis is with you and dsafe.  I've seen things that ould make peopel ill, and what you are desribing is torture, way beyond abuse.  It has to stop, and by coming out aand getting help to be safe, you will make sure that you and your sster dont ever have to worry about this ever again.  Please, go make some phone calls, and get out of there.  When th truth comes out, they will pay for what has happened to you.  I should know.  My mother that tried to harm me before i was born is possibly getting a parole.  I never  have known her, adn don't intend to start now.  I have my life, and at 24, I wil lsoon be staring my own family, and I want her to have no part in any of my life.  I ws lucky.  Now you have to make some luck for your sister, by gettign out of there and telling your story.  It's scary, but if you don't. what will happen to you and your sister will only get worse.  It's time sweetie..call Children's servies (aka CPS, DPS, DYS, etc).  Get out and get some help.  You dont have to do this alone.  Good luck, and know there are peopel out here that care about you,adn want ot help you.  Star t making your phone calls.  Good luck, and if you can and want to, drop me aline to tell me you re ok, and how you re doing.  I care.

Answer 8

I dont know but it sounds like you should go to the cops

Answer 9

wow thats prettty harsh but my mom went through kinda the same thing when she was a kid. well she was never hurt or anything but neglected. like when her parents went out to eat they would have to wait in the car. and she often snuck out because she wasnt allowed to do anything either.

anyways i would stick really close to your friends that you have & they'll help you get through it. you may feel like you wanna run away, but if your 13, that might not be the best thing. if things are WAAY too much out of hand, then you may wanna call the someone, like an authority (cops, child services,etc.) no matter how bad you feel about ratting out your parents, because its the best thing for you.

idk for sure, but i think theres hotlines you can call for that kind of stuff, and you could also talk to a school counsler.