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i am talking to a man who is quite a bit older then me i am 16 and he is 36 i am keeping him a secret because I'm scared of wat people will say but he want to meet me an I'm not sure if i will be safe wat should i do meet him an risk it or wait till I'm sure?

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Your excitement over meeting this guy is based purely on fantasy. Maybe you think that it would be a fantastic challenge to enjoy some forbidden love with this much older mystery guy. But you have no idea who he is, what he is like, or what his intentions really are. He may not be what he says he is, for example, he could be 13-year-old girl planning a hoax, or a 55-year-old man with no good intention at all except to take advantage of you. If you want to meet someone, meet him on a social occasion, while you surround yourself with your friends. Play it Safe!!
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No, do not meet him. Its probably a pervert. Just stay away from him. If I were you I wouldn't even talk to him again and just get off whatever server that your talking to him on.
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Sweetie,  this is not a smart idea !  Life is not easy at it's best. This idea will only present problems for you.  May sound exciting but will only bring you pain  and disappointment to your life. You will put yourself in a precarious situation to put it mildly.  If you like pain then you might enjoy this trip. Otherwise it is a dumb idea.  He will be 40years old in a short time and is an old man for a 16year old.  You deserve a good life  with a young man.  Do you believe you do?

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I gotta tell you, theres a hundred alarm bells going off in my head. He has never seen you and knows your 16, and now he wants to meet you? This is not a fairytale honey, this is an internet pervert and you gotta stay away from him. Please don't meet him unless its at home with your parents. Afterall, if his intentions ARE honourable, why shouldn't he meet your parents? ;-)
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Girl are you insane????

First you met him online... now he wants to MEET YOU????

and he's 36?

This is a pervert that wants to abduct you and rape you.

You've heard all the stories of sexual assult

C'mon this is a no brainer

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Do NOT meet this man.

No, it will NOT be safe.

Stop being scared, and tell someone you trust (an ADULT you trust) about this.

This guy is really BAD NEWS. Do NOT be the next "The dead body of a young girl was found today" on the news.

Do not have any more contact with this man.
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Don't do it. A 36 yr old man should not be talking to a 16 yr old. He is a pedophile, and he only has one reason to want to meet with you. Don't you ever watch the Dateline show Preditor Raw. I know the attention from an older guy is exciting, but use your head. You know this is wrong or you wouldn't keep it a secret.
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you already know the answer to this...don't be stupid.
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How are you talking to this man? Is it via the internet? Please, please don't meet him. You know nothing about him. The fact that he wants to meet a young girl like you is very concerning. Keep yourself safe and make friends with people more your own age.
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Does this man know your age? This all sounds a bit dodgy to me. The fact you have to hide it shows that it is wrong or there'd be no reason to hide it. You might feel very mature at 16 but I bet you aren't as grown up and worldly as you think you are (no offence intended but I remember being your age) I cannot see what a 36 year old man could have in common with a 16 year old. I think you should steer well clear of this man as it sounds as though he could be a pervert who is hoping to take advantage of you. Sorry to be so blunt. IF he was nearer your age I would suggest perhaps meeting him in a public place. Please do not give in to any pressure he puts on you to meet him.
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well, first of all, are you talking to him online and how do you know him.

if you knw him personally and have talked to him face to face then you knw its okay to see him but if its by online or by phone etc, its not safe and i encourage you to not meet him at all. read anywhere online about online predators and you will see why its not safe. good luck and be smart about you decision!!!
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Tell him your concerns and say that you won't meet him without a parent. I would wait at least 3 months to meet him if I were you. Just to see if he is genuine and can wait. Then tell your parents about him and explain that you have been sensible and you want them to come with you. Or an older, trusted sibling or friend. But to be honest, he sounds like a perv. So please be careful.
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DON'T DO IT!!!!!

just please don't.

Think to your self. Why would a 36 year old want to meet me?!
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