What should i do should i really get married?

Question

I want to celebrate my wedding, I want to see myself in a white dress, have a party, have a big wedding cake with fun and all that but I don't really want to get married as in sign the paper.

Answer 1

You should go to Disneyland and get the "Princess For A Day" event.  Sounds like that's more what you want.

Answer 2

this is ridiculous...

Answer 3

How fair is that to your spouse? Not really at all.  Sounds like you want to have a big party for you and not anything to do with a marriage.  You sound selfish and immature and you should wait to get married.  

Answer 4

Are you really that stupid? Have a labor day party and wear a white dress then you won't have to pay for a divorce.

Answer 5

You know, you are just wanting to get married for the wrong reasons. Marriage isn't just something you joke about and put it in the back burner. Marriage is a contract between husband and wife and that contract should never be broken. Marriage is making a commitment to 'each other' not to yourself only.

Everything you mentioned here is fun and exciting and all, but what can be more exciting than wanting to make a contract, a promise, a commitment to your husband for the rest of your life? Marriage is something serious and not fun and games.

So if you are not ready to get married and don't want to make a commitment to him, then I think he is wasting his time with someone who is not mature enough and is not 'wife material'. What do you think?

I would consider you reading "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" and "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage."

Do read both of these books before getting married. They will help you out to be a good wife to your husband in the future.  

Answer 6

So you want a wedding and not a marriage. Sounds like you should NOT get married. When you get married it is a pledge to the person you love. The person you want to be with, share with, have children with, have good and bad times. This is why most marriages end in divorce. The women want the fantasy wedding day but have not thought if the person they are marrying is really the right person.  

Answer 7

Get it off your system in a Holloween Party where you can get dressed up and have fun.  Don't think you know what marriage means....

Answer 8

Oh.my.god.

That is all I can say...