What should i do should y leave or stay?

Question

what should i do? we have a 8 yr daughter since day one we haxe been fighting we have a 5inch file were going to court again this is our 20 times i was born in mex we are in cali i don;t want to fight no more please help me

Answer 1

You are not in a healthy relationship. Every relationship will have arguments, but when they end up in court or with the cops involved thats when its time to get out. Especially if you have a child. You are suppose to be setting an example for your daughter, a good example. You should either leave or seek counseling.  

Answer 2

if theres no way you guys can get along and for the sake of your daughter you guys should seperate. An intact family which parents are constantly fighting done more harm to the children than a divorced family.

But again, I hope you guys can figure out a way to sort things out.

Answer 3

....I can't understand you question.  I THINK you're trying to say that you're going to court for the 20th time for domestic violence?

Get help.  Seek counseling.  It takes two to make a marriage work.  If both of you aren't committed to making things work?  Leave.